When Families Break - "In This House" series | Part 6

Rachel Weaver and the Otterbein Worship Team lead worship.

When Families Feel Broken | In This House Series | Pastor Mike Newman

Every family faces seasons of struggle — moments when home doesn't feel like the peaceful place we hoped it would be. In this message, Pastor Mike Newman tackles one of the most relatable and difficult topics in the "In This House" series: what do we do when families break?

Drawing from Romans 12, Matthew 6, Matthew 7, and the words of Jesus, Pastor Mike walks through 8 practical, biblical principles to help bring healing and restoration to hurting homes.

QUESTIONS PASTOR MIKE ADDRESSES:

1. Do I have to practice biblical love even when I'm being treated unfairly?

Yes — biblical love is not optional based on how others treat us. Jesus calls us to love even our enemies, and responding in kind to hurtful behavior only adds fuel to the dysfunction.

2. Does forgiving someone mean pretending it never happened?

No. Forgiveness is a choice and an action, but it doesn't always mean the removal of consequences. Rebuilding trust takes time, and holding someone accountable is not the same as withholding forgiveness.

3. Is it okay to retaliate when someone wrongs us in our family?

Scripture is clear — revenge belongs to God, not us. Pastor Mike challenges us to resist the natural urge to retaliate and instead trust God with the outcome.

4. What if I'm not the one causing the problem?

Before pointing out anyone else's faults, we are called to examine our own hearts first. Our response to someone else's sin can either help begin restoration — or make things significantly worse.

5. How do I confront a family member who is making destructive choices?

Speak the truth gently and lovingly — and then let the Holy Spirit do the convicting. Constantly repeating corrections often destroys relationships and removes your future influence entirely.

6. Should I be praying about this?

Absolutely. Pastor Mike encourages praying for wisdom, personal strength, and specifically that God gives your loved one a distaste for their own sin — and warns against bailing them out of the consequences that come.

7. When should I seek outside help?

While not every problem requires a counselor, there are seasons where a third, objective voice is invaluable — especially in marriages. You don't have to wait for the other person to be willing before seeking help yourself.

8. What do I do when it all feels too heavy to carry?

Run to God. Jesus invites the weary and burdened to find rest in Him. You were never meant to fix everything on your own. The phrase Pastor Mike returns to: "I can't — but God can."

Whether your family is in crisis or just feeling the strain of everyday life, this message offers honest, grace-filled, and deeply practical guidance rooted in Scripture.

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