Message Notes:

A basic theme of this message:

•In every way, Jesus’ life was an “adventurous mission.” He lived with fullness of joy and mission. It is appropriate to consider that, as Christians (or “little Christs”), God wants the same for us. The Christian life is more than “being right” or “not doing wrong.” To be a Christian means that I gain my sense of identity and mission from my relationship with Jesus.

Question:

•When did we start believing that God wants to send us only to safe places to do easy things?

Comment:

•Jesus did not die to make us safe. He died to make us dangerous (and if that statement is too strong — He died to make us ready for an adventure).

Quote by Soren Kierkegaard:

•“Boredom is at the heart of evil.”

Scripture focus:

•Matthew 19:16-22

•The rich, young ruler was a “rule follower,” but it becomes clear in this story that he was still lacking something (see v.20)

•So, Jesus challenged him to a “telios” life (full / complete / mature). As part of that, He then told the wealthy ruler to release / let go of those things that he loved and that provided his sense of identity (his money and possessions), and to follow Him.

•The wealthy ruler could not do it. He walked away.

Byron will illustrate and emphasize that sometimes we are trapped by the things we cannot (or will not) let go of.

Every good decision involves a “yes” and a “no.” To say “yes” to one thing means I will say “no” to something else.

See Luke 9:23

Discussion Questions:

Think about this:

•What do you think is the greatest source of your sense of identity? Where does it come from?

•Does it come from things that have happened to you (tragedies, disappointments)? Perhaps these have marred your life and damaged your soul.

•Does it come from particular or various successes and/or failures in your lifetime?

•Is your sense of identity and mission rooted in your relationship with Jesus?

Offer examples of aspects of everyday life that illustrate “every good decision involves a ‘yes’ and a ‘no.’”