The authority structure God authored within the family is important to know. There are parents and children and such roles establish the relationship within the family. Josh Strelecki, Pastor-Teacher directs us to know these roles in the face of scrutiny and to uphold them within our minds and hearts. The children are not to lay up for the parents but the parents for the children. Children need laying up for and the parents are to lay up. Christian parents lay up for the children in all things physically and spiritually thus are to bring their children up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. Children need laying up for and therefore are to obey and honor their parents to particularly receive all the benefits of that admonition.