icon__search

God's Design for the Family

Reference: RM866

September 15, 2013 • Ron Moore

ESSENTIAL ELEMENTS OF A SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE

1. LEAVING: Complete loyalty to spouse.

2. UNITED TO: Commitment.

“United to”:
• Permanence: Commitment to sticking to the marriage.
• Stability: Commitment to the long haul.
• Meta-Commitment: Commitment to commitment.

3. ONENESS
• Spiritual Oneness: Developing together a follows of Jesus.
• Physical Oneness: An exclusive fulfilling sexual commitment.
• Mental Oneness: Focusing your thoughts on your spouse.
• Emotional Oneness: Commitment to exclusive feelings.
• Missional Oneness: Going the same way at the same time for the same reasons.

4. HUSBAND: SERVANT LEADERSHIP
A Sacrificial Love
A Sanctifying Love
A Nourishing Love
A Satisfying Love

5. WIFE: SPIRITUAL PARTNER
Submission does not mean that the wife is inferior in any way to her husband.

Submission does not mean that a woman loses her identity and becomes a non-person in the marriage.

Submission does not mean a woman is a passive participant in marriage and family.

Biblical Submission: In marriage and family issues, wives are to voluntarily submit themselves to the servant leadership of their husbands.