SE 93: I'm Boiling Mad. Turn Up the Heat!

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SE 93: I'm Boiling Mad. Turn Up the Heat!

October 14, 2024

This Week’s Listener Question:

I grew up in a house where it was wrong to express your anger so I learned to suppress it. Now I’m conflicted because anger feels like a natural response when you’ve been wronged. What do you think?

SOUL Group Questions:

To build connection with a friend or in your Soul Group, ask each other these questions.

1. What were you taught about anger when you were growing up?

2. Think of a situation that got your angry. What need was not being met? What boundary was being violated? How did you respond?

3. How has anger inspired you to make positive changes in your life?

4. When have you seen others create positive impact in the world because they were angry about something?

5. Where do you need to “turn up the heat” and express your anger in order to bring about greater intimacy, truth, or growth? Make a plan and go for it!

Resources:

To sign up for one-on-one grief support with Laura, visit griefandhope.org

Have a question for us? Send it to questions@soulenchilada.com

Learn more about Laura’s ministry The 3 O’Clock Wake Up Call – HERE

Learn more about Christine Ruth, counseling practice, and future retreats – HERE

SE 97: Mental Health Doesn't Take a Holiday

December 26, 2024

This Week’s Listener Question: Even though I tried to make the holidays peaceful and wonderful for my family, everything seemed to blow up in my face. How is it that you can do everything “right” as a parent and your kids are still going through major mental health issues? Would you like to be with Laura and Christine as they record their 100th Soul Enchilada episode? If so, email Laura at mailto:laura@3oclockwakeup.com to reserve your seat. The recording will be done the week of January 20, 2025. We hope you’ll be a part of this fun event! SOUL Group Questions: To build connection with a friend or in your Soul Group, ask each other these questions. 1. What mental health issues are talked about in your family? Which ones are kept secret? 2. Why do you think some emotions or experiences are easier to talk about then others, even though they’re universal? 3. How has a painful experience led you towards a career path, opened a door, or invited you into a new opportunity? Share your story. 4. How can you show up, be present, listen without judgment, and lean in with love to someone who is struggling with a mental health issue? Resources: To sign up for one-on-one grief and/or faith support with Laura, visit http://www.griefandhope.org/ To ask Laura to speak at your event – https://www.laurabusse.com/ Have a question for us? Send it to mailto:questions@soulenchilada.com

SE 97: Holiday Panic

December 10, 2024 • Laura Busse and Christine Ruth

This Week’s Listener Question: My college-aged kid came home from school super stressed out! How can I talk her off the ledge when she’s about to have an anxiety attack? SOUL Group Questions: To build connection with a friend or in your Soul Group, ask each other these questions. 1. How do your family members show their anxiety? 2. When you witness someone super anxious, what does it activate in you? 3. What helps you manage your personal anxiety? What’s in your “tool kit”? 4. In what ways can we model calmness in the presence of anxiety? 5. Brainstorm all the ways you can anchor yourself in calmness prior to a stressful situation, such as the holidays. Resources: To sign up for one-on-one grief and/or faith support with Laura, visit http://www.griefandhope.org/ To ask Laura to speak at your event – https://www.laurabusse.com/ Have a question for us? Send it to mailto:questions@soulenchilada.com Learn more about Laura’s ministry The 3 O’Clock Wake Up Call – https://www.3oclockwakeup.com/ Learn more about Christine Ruth, counseling practice, and future retreats – http://www.christineruth.com/

SE 96: Why Do I Keep Acting Like That?

November 26, 2024

This Week’s Listener Question: What’s wrong with me? Every time I go home for the holidays, I revert back to my teenage self. I’ve matured so much since the but I act like a rebellious adolescent around my parents and siblings. SOUL Group Questions: To build connection with a friend or in your Soul Group, ask each other these questions. 1. During the holiday, how do you regress or revert back to an older version of yourself? 2. How can you prepare yourself ahead of time for all the stress in this season? What do you need or want that might be different this year? 3. Who could be an ally for you this year, someone who holds you accountable for who you want to be? How can you purposefully plan with them? 4. What 3 values do you want to prioritize this holiday season? How will you live them out? 5. How can you anchor yourself in the person you’re trying to become or create? What the first step? Resources: Laura is hosting 3 free classes during the holidays to help prepare you for all the big emotions that come up this time of year. To register – https://www.griefandhope.org/event-list To sign up for one-on-one grief and/or faith support with Laura, visit http://www.griefandhope.org/ To ask Laura to speak at your event – https://www.laurabusse.com/ Have a question for us? Send it to mailto:questions@soulenchilada.com Learn more about Laura’s ministry The 3 O’Clock Wake Up Call – https://www.3oclockwakeup.com/ Learn more about Christine Ruth, counseling practice, and future retreats – http://www.christineruth.com/