The Practice of Generosity

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The Practice of Generosity

November 24, 2024 • Pastor Mike Calo • Colossians 4:6, Galatians 6:2, Luke 10:37, Jude 22–23, 1 Peter 4:8

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How to Show Mercy

If you want to build a lifestyle of mercy,

here’s three things you can work on.

1. Mercy begins with awareness.

Look for the needs of people around you.

Start looking for needs in your neighborhood,

the needs of people in your family,

the needs of people at work,

the needs of people you hang out with at football games.

Mercy always begins with awareness.

It begins with paying attention. It begins with noticing.

The reason that we are not merciful people

is not that we are bad people or mean people;

it’s because we are too busy.

We are moving from one thing to the next

and we are not paying attention to the things around us.

If you are not looking and not listening,

you just cannot be merciful.

Here’s the next principle:

2. Mercy flows out of unconditional love.

Don’t be offended by the sins of other people.

Grace is messy. Don’t be offended by the sins that they do.

You cannot say,

“Go get your act together and then I will like you.

Go clean up your life and then I will accept you.”

You have to accept people where they are in life.

Jesus hung out with the worst kinds of sinners.

Here’s the point:

I cannot look out for people,

if I am looking down on them.

If you, as a Christian, are looking down on someone,

you can’t look out for them.

Jude 1:22-23

And you must show mercy to those whose faith is wavering.

Rescue others by snatching them from the flames of judgment. Show mercy to others, but do so with great caution, hating the sins that contaminate their lives.

Showing mercy does not mean

that I excuse everything and say that everything is okay.

It’s not okay.

If you are out there and are addicted to things…it’s not okay. Showing mercy does not mean that I look the other way.

There’s a difference between acceptance and approval.

Jesus accepts me completely,

but He does not approve of everything that I do.

Jesus accepts you completely,

but he does not approve of everything you do.

1 Peter 4:8

Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.

Look out for others' interests; don’t look for their sins.

Be patient with people. They are in process.

It is unrealistic to expect a non-believer

to have the same moral standards as a believer.

First, they don’t understand it;

second, they don’t have the power to do it.

3. Mercy means choosing your words wisely.

You are never persuasive when you are abrasive.

Mercy puts a monitor on my mouth.

If I am going to show mercy,

there are some things that I just cannot say.

I have to watch my words.

I can’t be mean to people;

I can’t be rude to people;

I can’t be sarcastic to people.

I can’t put people down.

I have to choose my words carefully.

Colossians 4:6

Let your conversation be gracious and attractive so that you will have the right response for everyone.

You are never persuasive when you are abrasive.

A little kindness goes a long way.

Showing mercy means thinking about the other person

instead of thinking about myself.

It is doing what is best for them

instead of doing what is best for me.

When you show mercy to people

you are sharing the love of Jesus with them.

The Gift - Part 3

December 15, 2024 • 1 Timothy 6:15

No one ever imagined that a King would forgive a woman caught in the very act of adultery when the law said she should be stoned. No one imagined a King like Jesus Who overturned tables when people misused his temple They never imagined the King of the Jews riding into Jerusalem on a donkey. And those who would be cheering for his arrival would be the outcasts, the overlooked, and even the immoral ones. No one expected a King to stand trial for crimes that he did not commit. No one ever imagined that an innocent King would be beaten, whipped, scourged, stripped naked to hang on an instrument of torture known as a cross, dying a death that a criminal deserved to die. No one would ever have imagined this King hanging on a cross would look up to heaven and pray for mercy for those who were torturing him when he said, "Father, please forgive them "because they don't even know what they're doing."

The Gift - Part 2

December 8, 2024 • Pastor Mike Calo • Isaiah 53:6, Matthew 2:10–11

Today, we're gonna talk about the gift of MYRRH which many people probably don't know anything about. Myrrh is a valuable gum-like substance that's actually talked about 17 different times in the Bible. Occasionally, myrrh would have been used as an antiseptic. For example, if you know the story on Jesus on the cross, they offered Him wine mixed with myrrh to dull the pain but Jesus rejected that because he wanted to bear the full force and weight of our sins. More commonly though, myrrh was known as an ingredient used to embalm the dead. In other words, myrrh would have been used to help prepare Jesus’ body for burial, so myrrh, represents Jesus as the suffering servant or the Lamb of God who was born to die for the forgiveness of our sins.

The Gift - Part 1

December 1, 2024 • Pastor Mike Calo • Hebrews 10:10, Hebrews 4:14–15

I'll tell you a little bit about frankincense. According to essential oil advisors, frankincense is an oil that's kind of like a Swiss army knife. In other words, it's got many purposes. Personally, I don’t get the whole essential oils thing, Mainly because some oils smell terrible ….. And not conducive to personal interaction