Kathy Gallagher’s marriage was in shambles. Her husband Steve was addicted to pornography and was cheating on her with other women.
Heartbroken, she desperately tried to get Steve to love her again. But things only grew worse. Eventually, she had enough and left Steve for another man. But God was pursuing her, and through a series of incredible circumstances, He made it very clear to her that if she wanted to follow Him, it meant returning to Steve and fighting for her marriage.
Over the next couple of years, Kathy learned from Jesus what it meant to selflessly love a man who had been addicted to pornography.
God Restored My Marriage
Kathy Gallagher's Story - Part 3
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