Stoop Down
Galatians 6:1-3 TPT
1 My beloved friends, if you see a believer who is overtaken with a fault, may the one who overflows with the Spirit seek to restore him. Win him over with gentle words, which will open his heart to you and will keep you from exalting yourself over him. 2 Love empowers us to fulfill the law of the Anointed One as we carry each other’s troubles. 3 If you think you are too important to stoop down to help another, you are living in deception.
Have you ever made a mistake? I have many times. Growing up in a highly critical environment caused me to be super hard on myself. I suppose a lot of it was not wanting to be confronted by a parent or other authority because I wasn’t living up to their expectations, and them not truly concerned my with my own inner convictions at all, just that I was doing and living what they wanted. I hate that feeling of condemnation, not kindness or gentleness, but harsh and even loud rebuke. When talking with someone who is struggling over a slip up or a failure, harshness is not the way to go. It’s fine to let them know you are upset, even angry, but hold it down to a tone that is still gentle in your choice of words, showing them you truly love and care for them, but are very concerned and even hurt by their actions. When someone has knowingly participated in moral failing, for example, it is important to think about the long journey of inner repentance, getting to the root of why this happened. If the root causes are not dealt with, the root will spring up again. Time out is not the only answer. There are reasons why someone fails. Is it a weak walk with the Lord? Is it past happenings in their life that were never dealt with? Can we, as the Body of Christ, be filled with the Holy Spirit to overflowing in such a way, that with the awesome leading and guidance of the Holy Spirit, draw close to them and walk with them to help them come through to full restoration? Can we be firm, yet gentle? Can we believe God to open this one’s heart to see those who have reached out, are reaching out in humility and reliance on the Lord? God’s love can help us and with the help of our blessed example, Jesus, we can carry each other’s troubles. As our verse states, if you think you are too important to stoop down to help another, you are living in deception. I remember a young man in my youth group years ago who came from a broken home and strange upbringing by those not his parents, loving the Lord, yet truly struggling with addiction. He would go missing for two or three days and then would call for help. I would pick him up and bring him to our couch where he would sleep it all off for the next few days. This happened several times. His father came to me and told me not to reach out or help him in any way anymore, that he needed to suffer. How sad! Eventually this young man went to a Teen Challenge and became drug free. He now works with other addicts leading them to the Lord. What screwy ways people think. I’m so glad Jesus didn’t take that haughty, self-righteous view with me. Jesus stooped down and raised me up. I know He has and will always stoop to pick anyone up. I pray you will, too.
What about you? Have you been harsh and critical in your judgment of someone who is struggling? Do you find it hard to reach out to someone who is not living for the Lord? Let’s ask the Lord to give us His heart for those struggling and to give us a gentle heart that is will to stoop down for others. Have a great day in Him.