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You Are a Billboard for Jesus

October 15, 2026 • Nate Hilgenkamp • Titus 2:1–10

Your life is a billboard for Jesus, and how you live can either draw people toward Him or push them away. In Titus 2:1–10, Paul calls every believer to live with integrity, practice self-control, serve others, and invest in the next generation so that the way we live makes the gospel attractive to the world around us. Older men don’t check out from following Christ Older women should live with reverence and teach what is good Young women should faithfully follow the Word of God Young men must be self-controlled Workers should work to please their master Life Group Discussion: Who is someone whose faithfulness has challenged you to love Jesus more? What qualities do you see in them that you want to develop in your own life? Why is it important for older and more mature believers to invest in the next generation? What can you learn from someone in a different season of life? Nate emphasized that every season of life matters, whether you're married, single, or raising a family. How can you faithfully follow Jesus in your current season instead of waiting for the next one? What is the difference between simply avoiding sin and actively pursuing God's purpose for your life? How does remembering that you ultimately work for the Lord change the way you approach your job, school, or everyday responsibilities?

Episode 202- How to Talk About Sex in Your Marriage

October 13, 2026 • Andrew Owen, Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough • Ephesians 4:29, Proverbs 18:21, James 1:19

Talking about sex can feel awkward, but avoiding the conversation can keep couples from experiencing deeper intimacy, understanding, pleasure, and joy. In this episode, Derek, Andrew, and Gabrielle discuss how to communicate about sex both inside and outside the bedroom, how to talk about expectations and frustrations with humility, how past experiences can affect intimacy, and how couples can create a safe environment where sex communication can be had openly. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS What is one thing you love about our sexual relationship? What is one thing that would help you feel more loved, desired, or connected? What is one thing I could do differently to serve you better? Are there things we have never talked about because we feel embarrassed, awkward, or afraid of how the other person will respond? Are there any expectations we have about frequency, initiation, affection, or intimacy that we haven't clearly communicated? What helps you feel emotionally connected to me outside of the bedroom? Is there anything about our sexual relationship that causes frustration, pain, or disconnection that we need to talk about? How can we make our sexual conversations more characterized by humility, patience, humor, and grace?

Episode 393: Leaving the LDS Church | feat. Kighley Medrano

October 12, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp

This week we sit down with Kyleigh, who grew up devout Mormon in East Texas and spent years believing she had to earn her way to heaven and the moment everything changed for her and she gave her life to Christ. It was an eye-opening and insightful conversation that we think will be very helpful to you as you engage with people from the LDS church.

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October 11, 2026

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October 11, 2026

Holding the Line in the Church Against Culture | John Elmore | Harris Creek Sermons

October 6, 2026 • John Elmore • Titus 1:10–16

Culture pulls us toward compromise, but followers of Jesus are called to hold the line by standing on God’s Word, not personal preference. We protect the church, correct with care, and share Christ with those who need Him. We don’t let corrupt counsel contaminate the Church We correct out of care and concern We share Christ with corrupted people Life Group Discussion: What voices or sources most influence the way you think about God, truth, and morality? Why is it often easier to stay silent than to lovingly confront something that is spiritually unhealthy? How can we tell the difference between someone who needs correction and someone who simply needs to hear the gospel?

Episode 201- Is Social Media Making You Discontent in Your Marriage?

October 6, 2026 • Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough, Scott Kedersha • Philippians 4:8, 2 Timothy 1:7, Proverbs 4:23, 1 Corinthians 15:33

Social media can be a great tool, but it can also quietly fuel comparison, insecurity, resentment, and unrealistic expectations in our marriages. In this episode, we talk about guarding our hearts, being intentional about who and what we follow, setting healthy boundaries, and learning to appreciate our own marriage rather than be infatuated by what we see on social media. Discussion Questions - Is there anything you regularly consume that leaves you feeling discontent with our marriage or our life? - Who or what do you follow that genuinely helps you love Jesus and your spouse better? - Are there accounts we should mute, unfollow, or block because of how they affect us? - What boundaries around social media would help protect our marriage? - Are there certain times or places where we should agree not to use our phones? - Do we feel completely comfortable with each other seeing what we consume and who we communicate with online? - How can we use social media to encourage others rather than simply consume content? - What's one thing we could do together this week instead of spending that time scrolling?

Episode 392: God Tests, Satan Tempts. What's the Difference?

October 5, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp

In this episode, a listener calls in with a question a lot of Christians wrestle with — what's the difference between God testing us and Satan tempting us, and how do you tell them apart? JP, Kathy, and Nate dive deep into spiritual warfare, demonic oppression vs. possession, whether demons can influence your dreams, and why JP spent a lot of his life blaming God for Satan's work. This one is packed — don't miss it!

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October 4, 2026

Episode 200- Celebrating 200 Episodes!

September 29, 2026 • Andrew Owen, Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough • James 1:22–25, Philippians 2:3–4

For episode 200, the More Than Roommates team looks back on nearly four years of conversations, favorite memories, lessons learned, and the ways God has used the podcast to impact marriages. As they look ahead, they share their hopes for the future of More Than Roommates and remind couples that marriage isn't about settling for good enough, but continually pursuing Jesus, growing together, and becoming more than roommates. Discussion Questions - What have you learned about marriage in the last year that you wish you had understood earlier? - Where have you found yourself settling for “good enough” in your marriage? - When conflict happens, are you more likely to defend yourself or humble yourself and pursue connection? - What is one thing you've learned from this podcast or another marriage resource that you've actually put into practice? - What would it look like for your marriage to experience “more” of Jesus, more enjoyment, and more purpose together?

Episode 391: Surviving the First Year of Parenthood

September 28, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp

You have been asking for it, here it is! In this episode JP, Kathy, and Nate answer a listener's question about navigating the chaos of new parenthood — and they have a lot to say! They talk about trusting God with your kids, consistent discipline, keeping your family in church even when it's hard, and why every interruption is actually an invitation. If you're a new parent, expecting, or just trying to figure out how to raise kids who love Jesus, this one's for you!

A Leader Worth Following

September 28, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda • Titus 1:1–9

What does your life say about what you truly believe? In Titus 1, Paul shows us that godly leadership starts with leading well at home, living with character, and building your life on the truth of the Gospel. Lead well at home Lead with character Lead from truth Life Group Discussion: Who has had the greatest influence on your faith, and what did you see in their life that made you want to follow Jesus? Which of the character qualities in Titus 1 (self-controlled, hospitable, upright, holy, disciplined, etc.) comes most naturally to you, and which is hardest for you? Have you ever realized that something you believed wasn’t actually consistent with what the Bible teaches? How did that change the way you lived?

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September 27, 2026

Finishing Well

September 23, 2026 • Nate Hilgenkamp • 1 Timothy 4

Following Jesus isn’t about starting strong or checking spiritual boxes, but about staying faithful and running through the finish line. We finish well by practicing our faith, intentionally pursuing intimacy with Jesus, and using our influence to help others follow Him. To finish well, we practice our faith To finish well, we pay attention to our intimacy with Jesus To finish well, we persist in making disciples Life Group Discussion: What spiritual practices are you consistently doing right now, and which ones have you let slide? Why? What helps you genuinely enjoy being with Jesus rather than simply checking a box? Who are the people God has placed in your everyday sphere of influence right now?

Episode 199- Dealing with Jealousy in Marriage

September 22, 2026 • Andrew Owen, Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough • 2 Corinthians 10:5, Philippians 4:8

Jealousy can show up in marriage through insecurity, comparison, past experiences, or even legitimate concerns about trust and boundaries. In this episode, Derek, Andrew, and Gabrielle talk honestly about where jealousy comes from, how to distinguish between facts and the stories we create in our minds, and how to build greater security through communication, healthy boundaries, reassurance, and finding our identity in Christ. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS When does jealousy tend to show up most often in our marriage? When I feel jealous, what fear or insecurity might be underneath it? What is something I have recently treated as a fact that may actually have been a story I created in my head? Are there any behaviors or boundaries in our marriage that would help each of us feel more secure? Are there any past experiences or family-of-origin issues that affect the way I respond to jealousy today? How can we become more secure in Christ rather than asking our spouse to be our ultimate source of security? What is one practical boundary we could agree on together to protect our marriage?

Episode 390: Don't Let That Hold You Back | feat. Annie F. Downs

September 21, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp

This week we sit down with author and podcaster Annie F. Downs to talk about her new book, Don't Let That Hold You Back, stepping into the dreams God has placed in your heart, and why the enemy works overtime to keep you from them. Annie opens up about her engagement, choosing not to have kids, and what it means to finish your name well. Pick up her new book wherever books are sold — you're going to love it! https://a.co/d/06ofEkVN

Finishing Well

September 20, 2026 • Nate Hilgenkamp • 1 Timothy 4

Episode 198- Communicating Needs to Your Spouse

September 15, 2026 • Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough, Scott Kedersha • Philippians 2:3–4, Philippians 4:19, Proverbs 13:12

Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott tackle a listener question: how do you tell your spouse what you need when it might feel selfish, even though it's genuine? They dig into the difference between needs and wants, why timing and tone matter as much as the ask itself, and how humility on both sides changes the whole conversation. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS - The episode draws a line between a "need" and a "want", with a maybe a third category of "desire" in between. Where do you two tend to disagree on that line? Can you each name one current desire that you haven't clearly voiced yet? - Gabrielle shared that when Cooper expressed a need, her first instinct was to interpret it as "I'm failing him." Do you ever hear a request from your spouse and translate it into criticism? What would it look like to take the request at face value instead? - Philippians 2:3-4 was used to reframe the question from "how do I get my needs met" to "how do I meet my spouse's needs first." Practically, what's one need of your spouse's you could intentionally meet this week without being asked? - Where do you expect your spouse to just "know" something instead of communicating it directly?

Episode 389: Pretending God Is Real — Until He Wasn't | feat. Brian Guan

September 14, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp

This week we sit down with Brian Guan, a content creator from New York City who went viral for going around pretending to be a Christian — and ended up actually becoming one. Just 12 days into his faith, Brian joins us live to talk about what happened when an experiment became real, the convictions he's already wrestling with, and what it looks like to follow Jesus when you're starting from scratch. This one is refreshing, honest, and a whole lot of fun!

Healing Relationships

September 13, 2026 • John Elmore • Romans 8:6, Ephesians 4:32—5:1, Colossians 2:13–14, Matthew 5:23–24, Proverbs 6:2–5

Healthy relationships don’t happen by following our natural instincts, but by staying close to the Holy Spirit and letting Him lead us toward life and peace. Because we’ve been forgiven, we’re called to forgive others, and because we’ve been redeemed, we’re called to own our wrongs, seek forgiveness, and make things right. Follow the Spirit for healed relationship Forgiven people forgive people The Redeemed right their wrongs Life Group Discussion: What does stay “close enough to touch” the Holy Spirit look like in your daily life? Is there someone you’re holding onto unforgiveness toward? What makes it difficult to release that debt to Jesus? What makes admitting “I was wrong” and asking, “Will you please forgive me?” so difficult?

Episode 197- Marriage Hot Takes

September 8, 2026 • Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough, Scott Kedersha • 1 Peter 3:7, Ephesians 5

Warning, these takes are for fun and intentionally provocative! Listen and debate with us as Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott debate some controversial marriage hot takes, from separate beds and changing your last name to birthdays, sexual intimacy, date nights, prayer before marriage, and whether a healthy marriage is really 50/50. Discussion Questions - Which of the hot takes from this episode did you agree or disagree with most and why? - Do you have any hot takes? - Do you ever find yourself keeping score in marriage? Where? - How comfortable are we talking openly about sex and sexual intimacy? Why or why not? - What helps each of us feel more emotionally and physically connected before intimacy? - How important are birthdays and anniversaries to each of us? Do we communicate those expectations?