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Episode 392: God Tests, Satan Tempts. What's the Difference?

October 5, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp

In this episode, a listener calls in with a question a lot of Christians wrestle with — what's the difference between God testing us and Satan tempting us, and how do you tell them apart? JP, Kathy, and Nate dive deep into spiritual warfare, demonic oppression vs. possession, whether demons can influence your dreams, and why JP spent a lot of his life blaming God for Satan's work. This one is packed — don't miss it!

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October 4, 2026

Episode 200- Celebrating 200 Episodes!

September 29, 2026 • Andrew Owen, Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough • James 1:22–25, Philippians 2:3–4

For episode 200, the More Than Roommates team looks back on nearly four years of conversations, favorite memories, lessons learned, and the ways God has used the podcast to impact marriages. As they look ahead, they share their hopes for the future of More Than Roommates and remind couples that marriage isn't about settling for good enough, but continually pursuing Jesus, growing together, and becoming more than roommates. Discussion Questions - What have you learned about marriage in the last year that you wish you had understood earlier? - Where have you found yourself settling for “good enough” in your marriage? - When conflict happens, are you more likely to defend yourself or humble yourself and pursue connection? - What is one thing you've learned from this podcast or another marriage resource that you've actually put into practice? - What would it look like for your marriage to experience “more” of Jesus, more enjoyment, and more purpose together?

A Leader Worth Following

September 28, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda • Titus 1:1–9

What does your life say about what you truly believe? In Titus 1, Paul shows us that godly leadership starts with leading well at home, living with character, and building your life on the truth of the Gospel. Lead well at home Lead with character Lead from truth Life Group Discussion: Who has had the greatest influence on your faith, and what did you see in their life that made you want to follow Jesus? Which of the character qualities in Titus 1 (self-controlled, hospitable, upright, holy, disciplined, etc.) comes most naturally to you, and which is hardest for you? Have you ever realized that something you believed wasn’t actually consistent with what the Bible teaches? How did that change the way you lived?

Episode 391: Surviving the First Year of Parenthood

September 28, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp

You have been asking for it, here it is! In this episode JP, Kathy, and Nate answer a listener's question about navigating the chaos of new parenthood — and they have a lot to say! They talk about trusting God with your kids, consistent discipline, keeping your family in church even when it's hard, and why every interruption is actually an invitation. If you're a new parent, expecting, or just trying to figure out how to raise kids who love Jesus, this one's for you!

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September 27, 2026

Finishing Well

September 23, 2026 • Nate Hilgenkamp • 1 Timothy 4

Following Jesus isn’t about starting strong or checking spiritual boxes, but about staying faithful and running through the finish line. We finish well by practicing our faith, intentionally pursuing intimacy with Jesus, and using our influence to help others follow Him. To finish well, we practice our faith To finish well, we pay attention to our intimacy with Jesus To finish well, we persist in making disciples Life Group Discussion: What spiritual practices are you consistently doing right now, and which ones have you let slide? Why? What helps you genuinely enjoy being with Jesus rather than simply checking a box? Who are the people God has placed in your everyday sphere of influence right now?

Episode 199- Dealing with Jealousy in Marriage

September 22, 2026 • Andrew Owen, Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough • 2 Corinthians 10:5, Philippians 4:8

Jealousy can show up in marriage through insecurity, comparison, past experiences, or even legitimate concerns about trust and boundaries. In this episode, Derek, Andrew, and Gabrielle talk honestly about where jealousy comes from, how to distinguish between facts and the stories we create in our minds, and how to build greater security through communication, healthy boundaries, reassurance, and finding our identity in Christ. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS When does jealousy tend to show up most often in our marriage? When I feel jealous, what fear or insecurity might be underneath it? What is something I have recently treated as a fact that may actually have been a story I created in my head? Are there any behaviors or boundaries in our marriage that would help each of us feel more secure? Are there any past experiences or family-of-origin issues that affect the way I respond to jealousy today? How can we become more secure in Christ rather than asking our spouse to be our ultimate source of security? What is one practical boundary we could agree on together to protect our marriage?

Episode 390: Don't Let That Hold You Back | feat. Annie F. Downs

September 21, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp

This week we sit down with author and podcaster Annie F. Downs to talk about her new book, Don't Let That Hold You Back, stepping into the dreams God has placed in your heart, and why the enemy works overtime to keep you from them. Annie opens up about her engagement, choosing not to have kids, and what it means to finish your name well. Pick up her new book wherever books are sold — you're going to love it! https://a.co/d/06ofEkVN

Finishing Well

September 20, 2026 • Nate Hilgenkamp • 1 Timothy 4

Episode 198- Communicating Needs to Your Spouse

September 15, 2026 • Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough, Scott Kedersha • Philippians 2:3–4, Philippians 4:19, Proverbs 13:12

Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott tackle a listener question: how do you tell your spouse what you need when it might feel selfish, even though it's genuine? They dig into the difference between needs and wants, why timing and tone matter as much as the ask itself, and how humility on both sides changes the whole conversation. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS - The episode draws a line between a "need" and a "want", with a maybe a third category of "desire" in between. Where do you two tend to disagree on that line? Can you each name one current desire that you haven't clearly voiced yet? - Gabrielle shared that when Cooper expressed a need, her first instinct was to interpret it as "I'm failing him." Do you ever hear a request from your spouse and translate it into criticism? What would it look like to take the request at face value instead? - Philippians 2:3-4 was used to reframe the question from "how do I get my needs met" to "how do I meet my spouse's needs first." Practically, what's one need of your spouse's you could intentionally meet this week without being asked? - Where do you expect your spouse to just "know" something instead of communicating it directly?

Episode 389: Pretending God Is Real — Until He Wasn't | feat. Brian Guan

September 14, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp

This week we sit down with Brian Guan, a content creator from New York City who went viral for going around pretending to be a Christian — and ended up actually becoming one. Just 12 days into his faith, Brian joins us live to talk about what happened when an experiment became real, the convictions he's already wrestling with, and what it looks like to follow Jesus when you're starting from scratch. This one is refreshing, honest, and a whole lot of fun!

Healing Relationships

September 13, 2026 • John Elmore • Romans 8:6, Ephesians 4:32—5:1, Colossians 2:13–14, Matthew 5:23–24, Proverbs 6:2–5

Healthy relationships don’t happen by following our natural instincts, but by staying close to the Holy Spirit and letting Him lead us toward life and peace. Because we’ve been forgiven, we’re called to forgive others, and because we’ve been redeemed, we’re called to own our wrongs, seek forgiveness, and make things right. Follow the Spirit for healed relationship Forgiven people forgive people The Redeemed right their wrongs Life Group Discussion: What does stay “close enough to touch” the Holy Spirit look like in your daily life? Is there someone you’re holding onto unforgiveness toward? What makes it difficult to release that debt to Jesus? What makes admitting “I was wrong” and asking, “Will you please forgive me?” so difficult?

Episode 197- Marriage Hot Takes

September 8, 2026 • Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough, Scott Kedersha • 1 Peter 3:7, Ephesians 5

Warning, these takes are for fun and intentionally provocative! Listen and debate with us as Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott debate some controversial marriage hot takes, from separate beds and changing your last name to birthdays, sexual intimacy, date nights, prayer before marriage, and whether a healthy marriage is really 50/50. Discussion Questions - Which of the hot takes from this episode did you agree or disagree with most and why? - Do you have any hot takes? - Do you ever find yourself keeping score in marriage? Where? - How comfortable are we talking openly about sex and sexual intimacy? Why or why not? - What helps each of us feel more emotionally and physically connected before intimacy? - How important are birthdays and anniversaries to each of us? Do we communicate those expectations?

Episode 388: Are You Actually a Christian? | feat. Granger Smith

September 7, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp

This week we sit down with country music artist turned pastor and author Granger Smith to talk about his new book Poison the Well — and the question he asks almost every single day: are you actually a Christian, or have you just checked the box? Granger shares how his own faith unraveled and was rebuilt from the ground up, why he's passionate about sharing the gospel with Christians, and what it really means to follow Jesus beyond an altar call. Pick up Poison the Well wherever books are sold! https://a.co/d/0hQWM5I7

Breaking Free From Sin

September 6, 2026 • Nate Hilgenkamp • Psalm 32, 1 John 1:7, James 5:16

Freedom from sin comes when we take inventory, confess, and repent, bringing what’s hidden into the light. When we turn toward Jesus, we find forgiveness, healing, and joy. Take inventory of sin Confess your sin Repent of your sin Life Group Discussion: What is something you tend to avoid acknowledging or looking at honestly in your own life? Why? How does knowing that God responds to confession with forgiveness change the way you view your sin? What’s the difference between simply feeling sorry for your sin and actually turning from it?

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September 6, 2026

Episode 196- Sharing the Load in the Newborn Season

September 1, 2026 • Andrew Owen, Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough • Ephesians 6:12, James 4:1

The newborn season can make marriage feel more like a business partnership than a relationship, with endless tasks, exhaustion, and competing expectations creating resentment between husband and wife. In this episode, we talk about sharing responsibilities, carrying the mental load, extending grace, serving one another, and remembering that your spouse isn't the enemy and you’re on the same team! Discussion Questions for Husband & Wife - Are there any household responsibilities where resentment is starting to build? - Do we have a clear understanding of who owns which responsibilities, or are we expecting each other to read our minds? - What is one thing I could take off your plate this week? - What part of the mental load do you feel like I don't fully see or understand? - When we disagree about responsibilities, do we tend to assume the best about each other or assume selfish motives? - What is one thing we could do this week just for fun—not because it needs to get done?

Episode 387: How to Make the Most of Your Singleness

August 31, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp

In this episode, a listener calls in with a question a lot of single Christians are quietly asking — am I supposed to be spending this season preparing for marriage, or is that missing the point entirely? JP, Kathy, and Nate unpack what it actually looks like to embrace singleness as a daughter of God rather than just a waiting room for a relationship. If you're single and trying to figure out what this season is for, this one's for you!

Surrender To God

August 30, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda • Romans 7:18–25, Psalm 103:2–5, Proverbs 3:5–6

JP reminds us that freedom begins when we stop trying to fight sin and our struggles in our own strength and surrender to God. Through Romans 7, we’re reminded of three simple truths: I can’t, God can, and I trust Him, because the God who forgives, heals, redeems, and renews us is also trustworthy with every part of our lives. I can’t God can I trust Him Life Group Discussion: Where are you most tempted to rely on your own strength instead of admitting, “I can’t”? Psalm 103 says God forgives, heals, redeems, crowns, satisfies, and renews. Which of these do you most need to believe right now, and why? What area of your life is hardest for you to fully trust God with?

Episode 195- Intimacy After Having a Baby

August 25, 2026 • Andrew Owen, Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough • Philippians 2:3–4, Ecclesiastes 4:9–12, Song of Songs 8:7

The newborn season can leave couples exhausted, overwhelmed, and struggling to find the time or energy for intimacy, but it doesn't have to mean losing connection with one another. In this episode, we talk about spiritual, emotional, and physical intimacy and how husbands and wives can pursue one another, give grace, and stay connected while navigating the chaos of a new baby. Discussion Questions: 1. Which type of intimacy (spiritual, emotional, or physical) has been hardest for us to maintain in this season? Why? 2. What is one thing I could do that would help you feel more seen, known, and cared for right now? 3. What rhythms or “little rituals” could we create to protect our emotional connection, even when we don't have much time? 4. How has our relationship with God changed since entering the newborn season? Where do we need to pursue Him together more intentionally? 5. Are there ways either of us has been viewing intimacy primarily through the lens of our own needs? What would it look like to “outdo one another in showing honor”? 6. How can we communicate honestly about physical intimacy without either spouse feeling pressured, rejected, or ashamed? 7. What is one thing about our marriage in this season that we can choose to be grateful for? 8. Instead of trying to get back to the way our marriage was before kids, what might God be inviting us to build in this new season?