Sermons

Episode 206- Is Busyness Making You Roommates?

November 10, 2026 • Andrew Owen, Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough • Luke 10:38–42, Luke 5:16, Ephesians 5:15–17

Are you so busy doing good things that you're neglecting the most important things in your marriage? In this episode of More Than Roommates, we discuss why couples become overly busy, how to recognize when your schedule is hurting your marriage, and practical ways to make Spirit-led decisions about what deserves your yes and your no. Discussion questions: - When you look at our current schedule, do you think we're too busy? Why or why not? - What are some things we've said yes to that have unintentionally caused us to say no to each other? - Which of the four reasons for busyness—people-pleasing, identity, comparison, or avoidance—do you think most affects us? - Are we currently in a particularly full season, or has busyness become our lifestyle? - What do you believe God is specifically calling us to prioritize in this season of marriage? - What's one commitment we could remove from our schedule to create more margin for our marriage? - How can we do a better job making decisions together before committing our family to something? - What would it look like for us to be more prayerful and Spirit-led with our calendar?

Episode 397: Tongues, Deliverance & the Gifts Nobody Talks About | feat. Jon Thompson

November 9, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp

This week we sit down with author and pastor Jon Thompson — a leading expert on spiritual gifts and deliverance — to talk about the gifts the church doesn’t know what to do with. Jon breaks down tongues, prophecy, discernment, words of knowledge, and why where you’re most frustrated at church is probably where your gift is. Pick up his new book Presence and check out Convergence and Deliverance wherever books are sold! https://a.co/d/0gmCW46X

Jesus and Finances

November 8, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda • 2 Corinthians 9:6–11

What does it look like to be ALL IN with Jesus when it comes to your finances? In 2 Corinthians 9, Paul reminds us that our money reveals where our hearts are, and that following Jesus means giving generously, joyfully, and confidently, trusting that everything we have belongs to God. True generosity isn’t about how much you have, but how fully you trust the One who provides it. Give generously Give joyfully Give confidently Life Group Discussion: Why do you think generosity can be harder when we have more money? What does that reveal about our hearts? When was a time you gave something away and found yourself more blessed by giving than receiving? What fears or insecurities make it difficult to trust God with your finances?

Harris Creek | 11a |

November 8, 2026

Harris Creek | 9am |

November 8, 2026

Episode 205- Grass is Greener Where you Water It

November 3, 2026 • Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough, Scott Kedersha • Proverbs 5:15–19, Philippians 4:8

Is the grass really greener on the other side, or is it greener where you water it? In this episode of More Than Roommates, Scott, Derek, and Gabrielle discuss the dangers of comparison and discontentment in marriage. They also share practical ways to cultivate a thriving relationship through intentional investment, prayer, gratitude, and healthy boundaries. Discussion Questions: - In what areas of our marriage are we most tempted to compare ourselves to other couples? - What are some things about our marriage that we're grateful for but don't express often enough? - Are there any "weeds" in our marriage—unresolved conflicts, frustrations, or habits—that we've allowed to grow instead of addressing them quickly? - What is one practical way we could better pursue each other and make our marriage more enjoyable? - Are there any boundaries we need to establish or strengthen to better protect our marriage? - Who is a couple whose marriage we admire, and what could we learn from them?

Episode 396: Alcohol, Cigarettes & THC: Is It a Sin?

November 2, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp

In this episode a listener calls in asking about the difference between drinking alcohol, smoking cigarettes, and smoking weed as a Christian — and JP, Kathy, and Nate don’t hold back. They dig into what the Bible actually says, the difference between legalism and liberty, and why “become holy as he is holy” is the only rule that really matters. This one will make you think!

Harris Creek | 11a |

November 1, 2026

Harris Creek | 9am |

November 1, 2026

Reflect Christ in Our Relationships

November 1, 2026 • John Elmore • Philippians 2:1–11

Meaningful relationships start with going all-in with Jesus, allowing His love to fill us so we can love others with humility and selflessness. We’re called to put others before ourselves and live all-in for the Gospel, using every relationship as an opportunity to share the hope of Jesus until all are in Christ. Go All-In with Christ Live All-In for Others Be All-In for The Gospel  Life Group Discussion: How can you tell when you’re running on your own strength instead of being filled by Christ’s love? Philippians 2:3–4 calls us to put others’ interests ahead of our own. Where is this easiest for you, and where is it hardest? What would change about the way you approach your relationships if you truly believed God had placed those people in your life for a purpose?

Episode 204- Appreciating Your Spouse

October 27, 2026 • Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough, Scott Kedersha • Genesis 16:13, Hebrews 3:13

It's easy to get so busy with work, kids, and everyday responsibilities that we stop noticing the person right beside us. In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss how to stop taking your spouse for granted, cultivate a heart of appreciation, and intentionally make your spouse feel seen and valued by slowing down, speaking encouragement, learning their unique needs, and remembering that we are ultimately seen and loved by God. Discussion Questions 1. Feeling seen: When do you feel most seen and appreciated by me? When do you feel overlooked? 2. Taking each other for granted: What are some things you do regularly for our family that I might have stopped noticing or thanking you for? 3. Busyness: What tends to distract us from genuinely paying attention to one another? Is there anything we need to slow down or change? 4. Specific appreciation: What are three specific qualities or actions in your spouse that you are grateful for but don't say often enough? 5. Your spouse's dialect: What makes you feel most appreciated? A thoughtful note, verbal encouragement, public praise, practical help, or something else? Are there nuances I may be missing? 6. Spiritual foundation: Are we asking our spouse to provide all our security, affirmation, and satisfaction? How can we better root our identity in God's love while still caring for each other's needs?

Episode 395: NFL Dreams, Brain Tumors & the God Who Shows Up | feat. Gregg Tipton

October 26, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp

This week we sit down with Gregg Tipton — former NFL quarterback turned college campus minister — to talk about what it looks like to chase greatness for something bigger than yourself. Gregg shares how losing his starting job, getting cut from the Cardinals, and later walking through his wife’s terminal cancer all became the moments God used most. If you’ve ever wondered whether the hard chapters of your story are being wasted, this one is for you!

You're There for a Reason

October 25, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda • Titus 3

God has placed you exactly where you are to represent Jesus, not by criticizing the world, but by showing people His love through your actions, kindness, and gentleness. Remember the grace that saved you, stay focused on what matters, and look for ways to meet real needs because the world isn’t your enemy, it’s your mission field. Live by example Remember you were saved Stay focused on mission  Life Group Discussion: You can disagree with someone without dishonoring them. Where do you find it hardest to show gentleness and respect toward people whose beliefs, values, or opinions differ from yours? What would it look like to respond more like Jesus? Have you ever felt like your past disqualified you from being used by God? How might He use parts of your story, even the messy parts, to connect with someone who needs Him? JP says, “Don’t get so distracted by what’s wrong with the world that you fail to do what’s right.” What distractions, arguments, or frustrations tend to pull your attention away from actually loving and serving people?

Harris Creek | 9am |

October 25, 2026

Episode 203- Betrayal to Restoration ft. Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith

October 20, 2026 • Andrew Owen, Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough • Luke 8:17, James 5:16, Revelation 12:11

Can a marriage truly recover from betrayal? In this episode Matthew and Joanna RaabSmith share their personal journey through pornography addiction, secrecy, broken trust, and the difficult but beautiful process of rebuilding their marriage. They explain why honesty, emotional safety, individual healing, and a willingness to seek help are essential to restoring intimacy and how God can use even our most painful stories to bring healing, purpose, and hope. https://raabsmithteam.com Discussion Questions 1. Honesty: Is there anything we have been avoiding talking about because we are afraid of how the other person might respond? How can we make honesty safer in our marriage? 2. Trust and safety: What specific behaviors help each of us feel emotionally safe, valued, and secure? Are there ways we could become more consistent and reliable? 3. Secrets and shame: Why can it be so difficult to bring our struggles into the light? What role should confession, accountability, and Christian community play in our marriage? 4. Personal responsibility: When we experience conflict, do we tend to blame each other, become defensive, or take responsibility for our own part? 5. Intimacy: How comfortable are we talking openly about our emotional and physical intimacy? What makes these conversations difficult, and what would help us approach them with greater care? 6. Healing: Are there individual struggles, past wounds, or unhealthy patterns that we need to address rather than expecting our marriage to solve them? 7. Seeking help: If our marriage entered a difficult season, who would we turn to for wise counsel and support? Is there a step we should take now rather than waiting for a crisis?

Episode 394: Should Christians Celebrate Halloween?

October 19, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp

In this episode a listener calls in asking how to navigate Halloween as a Christian — and JP, Kathy, and Nate have a lot to say about it. They talk about the origins of the holiday, where to draw the line, horror movies, costumes, and why JP thinks turning your lights off on October 31st might be missing the biggest evangelism opportunity of the year. This one’s timely — share it with a friend before the 31st!

How Grace Works

October 18, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda • Titus 2:11–15

Grace is so much more than forgiveness; through Jesus, God saves us, shapes us, and sets us apart as His own. We don’t pursue holiness to earn God’s grace, but because we’ve received it, allowing His grace to transform our desires, change how we live, and make us people who reflect His kindness to the world. Grace saves us  Grace shapes us  Grace sets us apart  Life Group Discussion: Where are you tempted to believe you have to earn God’s love or prove yourself to Him? Where might God be inviting you to let His grace shape an area of your life right now? What is one practical way you can show the kindness of Jesus to someone in your everyday life this week?

Harris Creek | 9am |

October 18, 2026

You Are a Billboard for Jesus

October 15, 2026 • Nate Hilgenkamp • Titus 2:1–10

Your life is a billboard for Jesus, and how you live can either draw people toward Him or push them away. In Titus 2:1–10, Paul calls every believer to live with integrity, practice self-control, serve others, and invest in the next generation so that the way we live makes the gospel attractive to the world around us. Older men don’t check out from following Christ Older women should live with reverence and teach what is good Young women should faithfully follow the Word of God Young men must be self-controlled Workers should work to please their master  Life Group Discussion: Who is someone whose faithfulness has challenged you to love Jesus more? What qualities do you see in them that you want to develop in your own life? Why is it important for older and more mature believers to invest in the next generation? What can you learn from someone in a different season of life? Nate emphasized that every season of life matters, whether you're married, single, or raising a family. How can you faithfully follow Jesus in your current season instead of waiting for the next one? What is the difference between simply avoiding sin and actively pursuing God's purpose for your life? How does remembering that you ultimately work for the Lord change the way you approach your job, school, or everyday responsibilities?

Episode 202- How to Talk About Sex in Your Marriage

October 13, 2026 • Andrew Owen, Derek Davidson, Gabrielle McCullough • Ephesians 4:29, Proverbs 18:21, James 1:19

Talking about sex can feel awkward, but avoiding the conversation can keep couples from experiencing deeper intimacy, understanding, pleasure, and joy. In this episode, Derek, Andrew, and Gabrielle discuss how to communicate about sex both inside and outside the bedroom, how to talk about expectations and frustrations with humility, how past experiences can affect intimacy, and how couples can create a safe environment where sex communication can be had openly. DISCUSSION QUESTIONS What is one thing you love about our sexual relationship? What is one thing that would help you feel more loved, desired, or connected? What is one thing I could do differently to serve you better? Are there things we have never talked about because we feel embarrassed, awkward, or afraid of how the other person will respond? Are there any expectations we have about frequency, initiation, affection, or intimacy that we haven't clearly communicated? What helps you feel emotionally connected to me outside of the bedroom? Is there anything about our sexual relationship that causes frustration, pain, or disconnection that we need to talk about? How can we make our sexual conversations more characterized by humility, patience, humor, and grace?

Episode 393: Leaving the LDS Church | feat. Kighley Medrano

October 12, 2026 • Jonathan Pokluda, Kathy Davidson, Nate Hilgenkamp

This week we sit down with Kyleigh, who grew up devout Mormon in East Texas and spent years believing she had to earn her way to heaven and the moment everything changed for her and she gave her life to Christ. It was an eye-opening and insightful conversation that we think will be very helpful to you as you engage with people from the LDS church.