5. Not Tonight? Why Good Signals Make Sexual Sparks Fly: Dr. Michael Sytsma

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5. Not Tonight? Why Good Signals Make Sexual Sparks Fly: Dr. Michael Sytsma

Married With Benefits

March 7, 2023

Initiating or declining sex: It’s tricky. Are your signals clear to your spouse? Sex therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma helps you with “not tonight” and “yes, please.”

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