Have you ever come across the story of Alice in Wonderland? In a conversation between Alice and the Cheshire Cat, Alice asked, "Would you tell me please, which way I ought to go from here?" "That depends a good deal on where you want to get to," said the cat.
"I don't much care where," said Alice.
"Then it doesn't matter which way you go," said the cat.
In order to grow in our purpose, we have to start with the question – “Where do I want to get to?”