Theme: Simple Obedience and Family Relationships, Pt. 2: Reconciliation, Discipline, and Forgiveness
Passage: Matthew 18:10–35
Command: Exercise humility by caring for each one of your siblings (10).
· Theological Basis (10–14: “The Wandering Sheep”):
1. Each believer is watched over by your heavenly Father (10).
2. Your Heavenly Father desires to rescue His wandering sheep (12–14).
· Ecclesiastical Practice (15–20: “The Sinning Sibling”):
1. Church Discipline (15–17)
a. Personal Confrontation (15)
i. to regain your sibling
ii. if that doesn’t result in repentance ...
b. Leadership Involvement (16)
c. Corporate Confrontation (17)
d. Removal from membership (17b)
2. Heavenly Authority (18): Jesus authorizes His church to declare through membership who are truly God’s children.
3. Christ’s Presence (19–20): Jesus promises His divine presence through this process.
· Individual Forgiveness (21–35: “The Unforgiving Servant”): We must forgive the repentant because we have received the forgiveness of our gracious and merciful Father.
Main Idea: Christ followers reflect God’s reconciling forgiveness with their spiritual siblings.
Application Questions:
· Why do we struggle with forgiveness as pursued and prescribed in this passage? What specifically do you find difficult in pursuing forgiveness with a spiritual brother or sister?
· How does the practice of church discipline in this passage shape your understanding of church membership?
· What do you learn about the heart of God for His sheep/children from this passage? How is this changing how you view your spiritual siblings?
· What is this passage calling you to specifically do this week regarding forgiveness of your spiritual siblings?