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October 1, 2023

Simple Obedience in Marriage, Divorce, and Singleness

October 1, 2023 • Pastor Phil Burggraff • Matthew 19:3–12

Theme: Simple Obedience in Marriage, Divorce, and Singleness

Passage: Matthew 19:3–12


This passage contains two commands that should govern our approach to marriage:


1.    Command: No one should tear apart what God has created in marriage (4–6).

a.    God has designed the complementarity of male and female (4).

b.    God has declared marriage to be a lifelong relationship between the husband and wife (5–6).

c.    God has made allowance for divorce because of our sinfulness (7–9).


2.    Command: The one who believes they are called to celibacy must pursue God’s kingdom purposes.


Main Idea: From beginning to end, Christ followers glorify God by pursuing his creative and kingdom purposes.


·     In our failure and frustration, God is glorified when we turn to Christ.

·     In our marriages, God is glorified when we mirror Christ through our relationship with our spouse.

·     In our singleness, God is glorified when we entrust our future to the pursuit of His purposes.


Application Questions:

What are some difficulties that you have with what Christ said in this passage? Why do Christians find what Jesus clearly says in this text so difficult to obey in our lives and churches today?

What implications are we to draw from God’s creation of male, female, and marriage (4–6)?

How can the gospel bring hope when we fail or experience frustration in these matters?

How are we to mirror Christ in our relationship with our spouse (cf. Ephesians 5: 22–33)?

If you are single, what is this passage calling you to do?