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Understanding the difference between urgent and vital

April 19, 2018 • Benham Brothers

* Samson had just killed 1,000 men with the jawbone of a donkey. * So he sang a song in his own honor. * He killed 1k men but couldn’t kill his own thirst. * God was humbling him. * This is a great picture of the distinction between what is vital and what is urgent. * Samson did what was urgent but neglected what was vital, and it almost cost him his life. * Urgent things are about tasks - getting stuff done. * Vital things are about life - sustaining and enhancing life. * We need to prioritize what’s vital over what’s urgent. * EX: It’s urgent I teach this lesson - it’s a task that needs to be done by a certain time. * But it’s vital that I use the bathroom regularly. * If I forsake what’s vital I cannot complete what’s urgent. * KEY - what’s vital is rarely urgent, but when it is it’s often too late. * If Samson didn’t drink he would die (vital), and if he died he could no longer fight (urgent). * side note - Relationships are never urgent - they are vital.

Six Traits of a Good Leader

Lessons from Joshua • April 15, 2021 • Benham Brothers

* Good leadership is good followship. * You know a good leader by the one he is following. * Joshua was a good leader because he was a faithful follower - of God and Moses. * Backstory - the Israelites had just repented of their sin (Achan) and made it right. * Now it was time to fight again (use their mistake for their benefit). * This was the first battle that involved typical military strategy. * So how did Joshua lead them? Notice six things: * 1) He was with the people (vs 9) - Just like Jesus, he didn’t elevate himself above them (Judas w/the kiss). * God makes clear in Scripture that He is “with” us (the best thing you can say to someone). * 2) He was in the valley (vs 13) - if things were bad with the people then he’d be right there with him. * Psalms 23:4 - “Though I walk thru the valley of death I will fear no evil, for you are with me.” * 3) He listened for God (vs 18a) - he paid attention to God’s voice. * 4) He obeyed God (vs 18b & vs 29) - when he heard God’s command, he obeyed without question. * 5) He built an altar (vs 30) - he had an attitude of reverence to God, a heart of worship. * 6) He elevated Scripture (vs 34) - he elevated God’s Word above all and made sure everyone heard it. Specifically the blessings and curses of Deuteronomy 28 (George Washington).

Five Keys to a Godly Biz Leader

Five Keys to a Godly Biz Leader • November 5, 2020 • Benham Brothers

Psalms 119:57-63 1 - Be committed to God. 2 - Be self aware. 3 - Never procrastinate. 4 - Always be thankful. 5 - Choose wise friends.

GOALS 101

How to set and accomplish your goals • January 2, 2019 • Benham Brothers

A dream written down is a goal. A goal broken down is a plan. A plan acted upon leads to profit (Proverbs 16:9). You cannot accomplish your goals apart from discipline and diligence. You cannot maintain discipline without knowing WHY you have the goal in the first place. Seven Keys to creating goals: 1) Establish Long Term and Short Term Goals - a long term goal is what you want to accomplish or become in 5 years, 10 years, lifetime. Short term goals are the ones that are measurable and include more of your day-to-day activities. 2) KISS - keep it simple stupid! When you start thinking of all the things you want to accomplish you'll end up writing a book. Refine this down to one or two points for each category. 3) Categorize - you can split them up however you want. Financial, Personal, Business, Spiritual, etc (you can have one or two sub-categories under these as well). It doesn't matter what categories you use - just do something that helps you keep track. 4) Write them down - that's what your Memo App is for! Put it on your PDA and carry them with you everywhere. 5) Measure them - every quarter take inventory and then write a date beside the ones you've accomplished. You have to put goals that can be measured - don't just put "Become a better husband." Instead, put "One date night a week" or something like that. 6) Refine - take inventory to see if you need to change a goal. There's nothing wrong with that. We plan our way but God determines our course, so sometimes you'll end up on a different course which makes your previous goal moot. 7) Pray over them daily - at the bottom of my goals list I put Proverbs 16:3 - "Commit your way to the Lord and your plans will succeed." The beauty of this is that when you're walking with the Lord He will give you the plans He wants you to follow - so just make a plan and stick to it. He'll change them when/if He sees fit. Either way, your/His plans will succeed.