A Selfish Leader

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A Selfish Leader

How a leader's decisions affects everyone

January 18, 2018 • Benham Brothers

* These leaders show us what the phrase “blinded by selfishness” is all about.
* They show us how stupid people can be when they’re led by selfish desires.
* They were leaders, which meant they were considered wise by the people.
* The minute they thought about what they wanted to “get” instead of “give” guess who it affected?
* The whole city!!!!! All the men died.
* Pay attention to the first thought that crosses your mind when you have to make a decision.
* This will show you if you’re a selfish leader.
* When you’re a selfish leader:
* Opportunities become threats.
* Teammates become competitors.
* Employees become servants.
* Money becomes security.
* Your job becomes your identity.
* Family becomes a nuisance.
* Stuff becomes status.
* You ultimately become your own god.

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