From Harm to Harmony

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From Harm to Harmony

Beef: Week 1

April 28, 2024 • Pastor Jerome Gay Jr. • Romans 12:16–21

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Here are a few key points to meditate on this week:

- Recognize the roots of conflict, often stemming from family of origin issues, self-centeredness, and pride, and address these issues with a heart of humility.

- Use Scriptural guidance, such as the wisdom found in James and the teachings of Jesus, to transform disputes into opportunities for growth and peacemaking.

- Practice introspection and accountability by owning our part in disagreements and seeking to preserve relationships over being right.

Cain: A Tale of Anger and Conflict

May 26, 2024 • KO Grissett • Ephesians 4:31–32, Genesis 4:3–7, Ephesians 4:26–27

As we seek to respond well to situations that anger us, KO Grissett provides some helpful points from the example of Cain and Abel: - Our Emotions are meant to be gifts. - Angers calls us to Action. - Always Pause with God for Reflection before Responding in Anger

From Fury to Faith

May 19, 2024 • Pastor Jerome Gay Jr. • Psalm 55:12–23

Here are a few takeaways to meditate on this week: - Direct your pain to God in prayer, naming your emotions and acknowledging the impact of hurtful words or actions that you've experienced. - Endure the pain by seeking God's strength and direction, rather than trying to escape or retreat from the situation. - Process your pain purposefully by voicing your feelings to God, while trusting in His justice and sovereignty.

From Separation to Restoration

May 12, 2024 • Pastor Jerome Gay Jr. • Acts 15:36–41

Here are some key takeaways from our time together: - Conflict as an Opportunity for Growth: We discussed how separation in relationships, though difficult, can lead to personal and communal growth if handled with godly wisdom. - Biblical Guidance for Healthy Separation: We examined scenarios that may necessitate a temporary separation in relationships, stressing that the ultimate goal is always reconciliation. - Restorative Separation: Our conversation included practical steps such as contrition, contemplation, community, communication, and connection which must any period of separation to ensure it remains restorative. - The Role of Community: We were reminded of the importance of the community's role in both the calling and resolution of conflicts within the church. - The Power of Reconciliation: Highlighted by the eventual reunion of Paul and Mark, we celebrated the hope that shines through when estranged relationships are mended through faith.