From This Day Forward
Marriage and Dating Series
From This Day Forward Part 4
March 3, 2024 • Pastor James Sunnock, Aileen Sunnock • Ephesians 5:21–33, Ephesians 4:32, Colossians 3:13–14, 1 Thessalonians 5:11, 1 Corinthians 7:3–5
Pastor James and Aileen discuss the intricacies of building and maintaining a successful marriage. Beginning with the biblical principle of being equally yoked, the talk emphasizes the importance of spiritual alignment between partners. Key themes include communication, mutual respect, and understanding, especially when one partner's faith may be stronger or at a different stage. Throughout their 37 years of marriage, they have gleaned valuable lessons, addressing common concerns such as intimacy, priorities, and the challenges of leadership and submission. They stress the significance of prioritizing God, then marriage, above all else, fostering intentional habits like family dinners and date nights. Moreover, they underscore the necessity of surrendering to God's guidance and seeking His strength to navigate the complexities of marriage.
From This Day Forward Part 3
February 25, 2024 • Pastor James Sunnock, Aileen Sunnock • Proverbs 15:1, Ephesians 4:15, Proverbs 18:21–22, Psalm 17:3, Ephesians 4:29
Pastor James and Aileen delve into the importance of resolving conflicts effectively in relationships, emphasizing the impact of communication on marital and personal dynamics. They talk about unhealthy communication patterns and stress the need for constructive dialogue. They offer practical advice, urging individuals to focus on personal growth, understand their communication styles, and cultivate a supportive environment for dialogue. Emphasizing the significance of words, urging accountability and repentance for hurtful speech. They highlight key principles such as fighting fair, maintaining a respectful tone, and speaking truth with love.
From This Day Forward Part 2
February 18, 2024 • Pastor James Sunnock, Aileen Sunnock • 1 Corinthians 13:4–8, Romans 12:10, Ephesians 5:21–28, 1 John 3:16, John 13:14–15
The video delves into the significance of understanding and expressing love languages within marriage and relationships. It emphasizes the importance of recognizing God's unwavering Agape love as the foundation of love that never fails. Falling out of love may indicate a need to reconnect with God's love, which is everlasting and fueled by the Holy Spirit. Pastor James and Aileen recommend "The Five Love Languages" book as a valuable resource for understanding and expressing love effectively. Drawing from biblical principles, they highlight the distinction between different types of love described in Greek and emphasizes the importance of aligning with God's agape love. Key points include the need for mutual submission and selflessness in marriage, the importance of recognizing and expressing each other's love languages, and the significance of communication and understanding in nurturing a healthy relationship. The video concludes with a call to embrace faith and surrender to Jesus for a transformative life.
From This Day Forward Part 1
February 11, 2024 • Pastor James Sunnock, Aileen Sunnock • 1 Corinthians 13:5, 2 Corinthians 6:14, Proverbs 3:5–8, Proverbs 16:9, 1 Corinthians 13:7
Pastor James and Aileen share insights on relationships and dating, particularly from a Christian perspective. They emphasize the importance of focusing on personal growth and becoming the right partner rather than solely seeking the right one. Drawing from biblical teachings, they highlight qualities like honor, faithfulness, excellence, and teachability as crucial for individuals in their single season. They discuss the diverse situations of singles, acknowledging those who choose singleness, those resetting their lives post-divorce or widowhood, and those actively seeking a partner. They debunk the notion that singleness is a flaw within the Christian faith and encourage individuals to embrace their current season, focusing on personal and spiritual development. Furthermore, they touch on practical advice for dating, emphasizing the need for accountability, seeking parental blessings, and aligning relationships with spiritual guidance. They advocate for a dating period that is not excessively prolonged, underlining the importance of discernment and openness to God's direction. Throughout the message, they stress the significance of finding contentment and fulfillment within oneself and in a relationship with Christ. They encourage serving within the church community and fostering honesty and openness in relationships.