First Peter 2:21 says, "For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, so that you might follow in his steps.” This verse is set in the middle of a section of 1 Peter that addresses various institutions in the world. So far we have considered government and work. And now we will think about marriage.

In 1 Peter 3:1–7 we find a vision for what godly women and men look like. And critically, this vision of marriage is one that stands in stark contrast to the wisdom and habits of the world. By contrast, Peter draws us to consider Christ and the rest of Scripture to understand our roles in marriage.

Such practical wisdom is deeply helpful for those who are married, but it also serves everyone (married, single, divorced, or widowed), because marriage is not just a private enterprise for some. Rather, marriage is for the beautification of the cosmos, and hence it applies to everyone. And learning about marriage will help you both now and for eternity.

To prepare yourself for Sunday, please read 1 Peter 3:1–7 and pray God would give us ears to hear and hearts to cherish what his word says. The institution of marriage is under threat today, and we need God to graciously restore our vision of its goodness and glory.

See you Sunday, DV.

For His Glory and your joy,
Pastor David

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Discussion & Response Questions for 1 Peter 3:1-7
1. Why are passages like 1 Peter 3:1–7 so challenging for us today? Why are they so controversial?
2. What are the instructions for the woman in this passage? How should 1 Peter 2:13’s “for the Lord’s sake” shape the wife’s submission to her husband?
3. What are ways that the believing wife might win her unbelieving husband to the gospel?
4. Consider that which is imperishable, beautiful, and precious to God (see 3:4). How does this connect to 1 Peter 2:4? What about 1 Peter 1:18-19?
5. How does Sarah’s example (vv. 5-6) serve to explain his teaching (vv. 1-4)?
6. What is the difference between egalitarian and complementarian views of marriage? How should 1 Peter shape your view of marriage?
7. According to Scripture, what does a true, good, and beautiful marriage look like? How does this passage relate to / apply to singles?