When one mom asks a hard marriage question, we know hundreds more are wondering the same thing. Today, Karen and Emily tackle your vulnerable questions about jealousy, mismatched sex drives, and resentment at home. Karen reminds us that fighting for our marriages is worth it, even when it means doing the hard work like going to counseling, seeing a doctor, or having the tough conversation. We hope this episode will encourage you to keep investing in your marriage no matter the season you are in!

Episode Recap:

I struggle with jealousy when my husband is around other women, is that normal? (5:11)

My husband doesn’t initiate sex, what should I do? (8:20)

As a SAHM, I’m super frustrated with the home workload (10:34)

Communicate when things are calm, not just in the heat of the moment (17:03)

My husband and I disagree about SO MUCH - how do we compromise? (18:16)

My spouse will NOT apologize. What are my options? (23:39)

How do you stay connected when you’re outnumbered by kids & have busy schedules? (24:18)

Scripture: Colossians 3:13–14

“Bear with each other and forgive one another… And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.”

Discussion Questions:

1. What expectations do you carry into your marriage that you haven’t clearly communicated to your spouse?

2. How do you and your husband currently handle disagreements? What could you do to practice more “active listening” with one another?

3. When it comes to intimacy, how comfortable are you being honest about your needs? What might help you take a step toward open communication?

4. What are some small, practical ways you and your spouse can prioritize your marriage this week?

5. What regular rhythms/routines could you establish to make sure you prioritize your marriage even when life feels overwhelming?

Resources:

- Check out our Parenting Together curriculum for FREE in the BOAW Moms app: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/birds-on-a-wire-moms/id1419899927

- Download the companion study guide in the BOAW store: boaw.mom/parentingtogether