The holidays can often bring stress and guilt for moms as we try to make everything perfect for our families. In this episode, Karen and Emily share how to embrace a simpler, more joyful approach to Christmas. From favorite childhood memories to navigating tight budgets, they remind us that the best moments often come from just being together! We hope this episode inspires you to let go of the pressure, focus on what truly matters (Jesus’ birth!), and create meaningful traditions—whether planned or unplanned.

Episode Recap:

3:08 - Karen and Emily “This or That’ Christmas edition

9:30 - Emily’s favorite Christmas memories growing up in the Stubbs’ home

11:20 - The best memories aren’t always the ones you plan

16:54 - Pick a few things that are important to you and forget the rest

18:20 - Some traditions happen organically and end up being the kids’ favorite

20:10 - How do I keep the holiday spirit alive as my kids grow?

23:00 - Explain the budget to your kids and don’t feel bad about sticking to it

25:32 - Mishaps can lead to new traditions and memories.

27:30 - Give yourself grace and just enjoy this holiday season!

Scripture for Reflection:

Luke 2:10-12 (NIV): “But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”

Questions for Discussion:

What are some of your favorite childhood holiday memories?

How can you simplify your holiday plans this year to focus more on connection and less on perfection?

What are some inexpensive ways to create lasting memories with your family during the holiday season?

How can you be intentional about letting go of comparison during the holidays?

What new traditions could you start as your children grow older and your family’s needs change?

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