The David/Saul Conflict - Study of 1 Samuel: WEEK 7

In Week 7, we find ourselves in one of the most tension-filled seasons of David's life, where divine anointing collides with earthly authority. The narrative of 1 Samuel 18-20 reveals a profound truth: being chosen by God doesn't exempt us from walking through valleys. David, freshly celebrated for defeating Goliath, experiences both the heights of success and the depths of persecution. The most important descriptor we encounter is that 'the Lord was with him'—a phrase that appears repeatedly, anchoring everything else. While David enjoys friendship with Jonathan and military victories, King Saul's jealousy transforms into murderous intent. We witness how pride can make another person's success feel like a personal threat, and how bitterness becomes a poison we drink hoping someone else will die. Yet through it all, David doesn't retaliate or start a rebellion. Instead, he seeks refuge with God's prophet Samuel and continues serving faithfully even in a toxic environment. The lesson resonates powerfully today: our success isn't measured by circumstances but by God's presence with us. When we walk through our own valleys of shadow and death, when hardship follows hardship, the answer isn't found in understanding why—it's found in knowing that God walks with us through it all. David's fugitive years remind us that God's anointed often endure what the world considers defeat, yet they carry an unshakeable peace because they trust the rod and staff of their Shepherd.

Key Points:

•Success is defined by obedience to God, not by circumstances or outcomes

•The defining characteristic of David was that "the Lord was with him" - this should be our defining characteristic as well

•Pride makes others' success feel like a threat rather than a celebration

•Spiritual decline produces irrational decisions and actions in our lives

•Godly advice can briefly calm evil, but it cannot change a corrupt heart without true repentance

•God directly intervenes to protect His anointed, sometimes using supernatural means

•Being God's anointed doesn't exempt us from walking through the valley of the shadow of death

•Jonathan's friendship with David defied natural expectations because of God's sovereignty

•David remained submitted to authority even in a toxic environment, refusing to retaliate or start a rebellion

•The rod and staff of God comfort us in the valley, making His presence sufficient in our trials

Scripture Reference:

1 Samuel 18:1-16 (primary focus)

1 Samuel 18-20 (overall context)

Psalm 23 (referenced regarding the valley of the shadow of death)

Key verse: "And David had success in all of his undertakings for the Lord was with him" (1 Samuel 18:14)

"Man looks on the outside, but God looks at the heart" (1 Samuel 16, referenced)

Discussion Questions:

How does David's response to Saul's murderous jealousy challenge our typical reactions when we face hostility or injustice from those in authority over us?

Jonathan's friendship with David required him to go against his own father and potentially forfeit his claim to the throne. What does this teach us about the cost of godly friendship and loyalty to God's plan over family expectations?

Pastor Ben emphasizes that 'the Lord was with David' as the key to his success. How do we measure success in our own lives, and are we prioritizing God's presence over worldly achievements?

Saul's jealousy began when he heard others praising David more than him. In what ways does comparison and the fear of others' success create spiritual decline in our own hearts?

David continued serving Saul faithfully even while dodging spears in a toxic environment. How can we apply the principle of 'working as unto the Lord' when facing difficult workplace or relational situations?

The passage describes how 'godly advice can briefly calm evil, but it does not change a corrupt heart.' What does this reveal about the limitations of human counsel without genuine heart transformation?

David chose to seek refuge with Samuel rather than start a rebellion, despite having popular support. What does this teach us about trusting God's timing versus taking matters into our own hands?

How does the reality that God's anointed (David) became a fugitive walking through 'the valley of the shadow of death' reshape our expectations about what following God's will looks like?

Jonathan had to navigate the tension between honoring his father and following God's plan. How do we discern when obedience to God requires us to stand against family members or cultural expectations?

Pastor Ben states that our spiritual decline produces irrational decisions and actions. What spiritual disciplines or practices help us recognize when we're beginning to decline spiritually before we make devastating choices?