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When In Rome: Build & Bear

December 10, 2023 • Russ Smith • Romans 14, Romans 15:1–3, Galatians 6:2–3, Colossians 3:13, James 1:19

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Here are some questions to help you process this message and apply it to your life:

1. Maybe you have a story about encountering a bear. What happened?

2. There’s that saying Unity in the essentials, liberty in the non-essentials, and in everything love. What do you think are some of the essentials about what Christians believe? What are some of the non-essentials?

3. Is there a way in which you feel “strong” in your faith in God that you need to be careful about when you’re around someone that’s “weak” in their faith?

4. How about the opposite - what way do you feel “weak” in your faith that’s sometimes difficult when you’re around people that are “strong” in their faith?

5. To build & bear this week, the big challenge for us is to listen to someone (be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to become angry). What’s another way you can build & bear people this week?

When In Rome: Better Together

December 17, 2023 • Garry Firth • Romans 15:20–22, Romans 16:1–20, Matthew 16:18, Hebrews 11:35–38, 2 Corinthians 4:14–16

1. When do you open Christmas gifts? On Christmas Eve or Christmas morning? What other Christmas traditions do you have? 2. What was your biggest take away from today’s message? 3. Greet Priscilla and Aquila my co-workers in Christ Jesus. They risked their lives for me…Romans 16:3 In what ways is it ‘risky’ to be a Jesus follower in Nanaimo or Canada today? 4. Who is someone that is ‘working hard’ that you could ‘greet’ and say thank you to? 5. What was your biggest take away from this series and why? (Good News/Bad News, Deal #1/Deal #2, Defining the Relationship, Oops I Did it Again, Graceville/Shouldsville, Sharing in God’s Glory, Build & Bear)

When In Rome: I'm Supposed To Do What?

December 3, 2023 • Garry Firth • Romans 12:1–2, John 13:34–35, Romans 5:8, Romans 12:9–16, Romans 13:1–10

1. When do you put up your Christmas decorations? When do you take them down? 2.In Romans 12:9 Paul writes: Love must be sincere. We heard how it literally means to love without hypocrisy. Our love for others is to be genuine (without wax, remember?) In what ways is your love for others ‘genuine/without hypocrisy’ and in what ways could you improve in your love for others? 3. Paul says that we are to Bless those who persecute you. (Romans 12:14) What is your initial gut reaction to that? Do you find it difficult to do that? What would help you actually put this into practice? (Think about God’s grace and mercy.) 4. ‘Everyone must submit to governing authorities. For all authority comes from God, and those in positions of authority have been placed there by God. So anyone who rebels against authority is rebelling against what God has instituted, and they will be punished. (Romans 13:1-2) God created government for our good because it brings order. What are your thoughts about standing against the government? When is that appropriate? 5. There’s a lost world looking for answers, looking for an alternative from what culture and the world is offering and we have the answer (the gospel message–the good news about Jesus) The best way to get the gospel message out is to live our lives in a way that stands out from the everyday in the everyday. So here’s what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him. Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. Romans 12:1-2 (MSG) What is one thing in your everyday life that you could give to God that would help get the message of Jesus out to those who need to hear it?

When In Rome: Renew and Refocus

November 26, 2023 • Garry Firth • Philippians 4:8, Romans 12:1–2, 1 Corinthians 6:13, Proverbs 13:2

1. What is your favourite social media platform and why? On average how much time do you spend on social media each day? 2. Therefore [in light of all I have talked about in this letter so far], I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. (Romans 12:1) What stands out to you in this verse? Why? 3. Garry defined grace as ‘getting what we DON’T deserve’ and mercy as ‘NOT getting what we DO deserve’. What does God give us that we don’t deserve and what does He not give us that we do deserve? Does that change your view of God at all? Share a time when someone extended grace or mercy to you. 4. “...in view of God’s mercy, offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God… (Romans 12:1) Holy means to be ‘set apart’ or ‘different’. We heard how we are to stand out (by being like Jesus) and not blend in to the culture around us. What are some ways you/we can do that? Or, how are you standing out? 5. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. (Romans 12:2) C. S. Lewis, who at one time was an atheist, said “Every Christian is to become a little Christ. The whole purpose of becoming a Christian is simply nothing else.” What are some ways that you can ‘renew your mind’ so you can become more like Jesus?