Our situations should make us better, not bitter. It's important to remember that God always has our best interest in mind, even when we're going through difficult or painful situations. In fact, if we look at the stories of Joseph and Job from the Bible, we can see that even though they experienced extremely frustrating and painful situations, they chose to trust God throughout the whole process. It's not always easy, but having faith can help us get through even the toughest of times.