Anatomy of Sex

My wife's Sexual Desire has waned and I am FRUSTRATED! What do I do?

November 19, 2021

Today we answer a listener question about a partner's change in sex drive, and what you can do about it.

Connection & Pleasure During the Holiday Season

November 12, 2021

Today we take a deep dive into what gets in the way of sex and intimacy during the Holiday Season and how to get more of what we are looking for!

Becoming Invincible as a Couple

November 5, 2021

Today we talk about the idea of becoming INVINCIBLE AS A COUPLE, we will explore what this means, how to do it, and why Melanie thinks it is so dang important! *NOTE: Our video ended but the audio keeps going, so keep on listening even though you can't see us! 😅

Can Solo Masturbation Help Your Marriage?

October 29, 2021

Today we tackle a very frequently asked question around the idea that solo masturbation might actually enhance your sex life!

Exploring Sexual Accelerators

October 22, 2021

Today we explore 'turn-ons' and dive deeper into the world of Sexual Accelerators!

What Turns you OFF?! Exploring Sexual Brakes!

October 15, 2021

Today we explore sexual brakes and dive deeper into what might be turning you OFF!

Sex Behind the Scenes

October 8, 2021

Today we open up about the ins-and-outs (pun intended) of our actual sex life. We are doing this to help people get a better understanding of the complexity of long-term romantic relationships, and to dispel any ideas that we have it all together!

Sex is Connected to Everything!

October 1, 2021

Today Melanie shares how sex is 100% connected to everything; from making sure the dogs get fed, taking out the trash, to being nice to the kids.

Grow Your Sexual Vocabulary

September 24, 2021

Today we talk about the importance of expanding the way that you talk about sex and intimacy in order to have BETTER sex and intimacy! When we can improve our conversations around pleasure we can have a lot more of it!

How Can I Avoid Obligatory Sex?

September 17, 2021

Today we answer a listener question about how to avoid obligatory sex, how to get out of that rut if you are already stuck in it, and so much more!

My Husband Keeps Looking At Porn!

September 10, 2021

Today we answer a listener question about what to do with unwanted porn use in your marriage!

HELP! My husband won't stop TOUCHING ME!

September 3, 2021

Today we answer a listener question about what to do when your partner does NOT have boundaries around your body.

Sex & the Double Standard

July 2, 2021

We are back at it again because one of y'all put us on blast for espousing a double standard when it comes to a woman's arousal vs. a man's arousal! So today we answer this question from a listener... If women are not responsible for men

Your Arousal is NOT my responsibility (Pt 2)

June 25, 2021

In part 2 we dive even deeper into the "why" behind our lack of intimacy, and brainstorm ways to end this idiotic cycle.

Your Arousal is NOT My Responsibility (Pt 1)

June 25, 2021

Seth and I hash out our sex & intimacy issues in REAL-TIME! We cover Family Of Origin, Unspoken Expectations, and the Invisible Rulebook in the in-depth two-part podcast!