Anatomy of Sex

Grow Your Sexual Vocabulary

September 24, 2021

Today we talk about the importance of expanding the way that you talk about sex and intimacy in order to have BETTER sex and intimacy! When we can improve our conversations around pleasure we can have a lot more of it!

How Can I Avoid Obligatory Sex?

September 17, 2021

Today we answer a listener question about how to avoid obligatory sex, how to get out of that rut if you are already stuck in it, and so much more!

My Husband Keeps Looking At Porn!

September 10, 2021

Today we answer a listener question about what to do with unwanted porn use in your marriage!

HELP! My husband won't stop TOUCHING ME!

September 3, 2021

Today we answer a listener question about what to do when your partner does NOT have boundaries around your body.

Sex & the Double Standard

July 2, 2021

We are back at it again because one of y'all put us on blast for espousing a double standard when it comes to a woman's arousal vs. a man's arousal! So today we answer this question from a listener... If women are not responsible for men

Your Arousal is NOT my responsibility (Pt 2)

June 25, 2021

In part 2 we dive even deeper into the "why" behind our lack of intimacy, and brainstorm ways to end this idiotic cycle.

Your Arousal is NOT My Responsibility (Pt 1)

June 25, 2021

Seth and I hash out our sex & intimacy issues in REAL-TIME! We cover Family Of Origin, Unspoken Expectations, and the Invisible Rulebook in the in-depth two-part podcast!

Porn & Insecurity

June 11, 2021

Today we answer a listener question about the impact of porn use on your marriage and how to deal with feelings of insecurity.

How Purity Culture Can Mess with Your Marriage

June 4, 2021

Today we talked with our very first Anatomy Of Sex guest Camden Morgante about the negative impact that purity culture can have on sex and intimacy in marriage.

Foreplay: 5 Myths We Need to Talk About

May 28, 2021

Seth and Melanie debunk some of the dumbest foreplay myths out there and help bring you some helpful tips to improve your foreplay game!

Help! My Husband Can't Orgasm

May 21, 2021

Sex can be emotionally tricky... couples can unintentionally wrap up their self-worth and value into what their partner does or doesn't do. Today we are talking about the emotional impact of a having partner who struggles to climax during sex, and how unintentionally mixing that up with your own self-worth can cause a big ol' hot mess!

Presence over Performance

May 14, 2021

It's just me today (Melanie)! I'm excited to talk about the importance of being present with your partner sexually vs. only performing for your partner sexually. Check it out!

How Do I Get My Husband to Do Intimacy With Me?

May 7, 2021

Sex isn't always intimate. Oftentimes couples will reach a point post-honeymoon-phase where they lose intimacy in their marriage - even if they're having consistent sex! Men, you're really missing out on connecting with your wife if you don't put in the effort. Wives here are some tips for how to encourage your man to show you love through intimacy beyond intercourse.

Feeling Unattractive

April 23, 2021

One partner feeling unattractive is a super common issue in marriage, that has a massive effect on a couple's sex life. Here are some tips and tricks to overcome that feeling!

Postpartum Sex

April 16, 2021

Today we tackle the DREADED topic of sex after giving birth! We share our CRAZY birth story (which included 2 minor surgeries??) with the hopes that it will help highlight the importance of healing.