Set a Modest Goal When Talking to Non-Christians

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Set a Modest Goal When Talking to Non-Christians

Alan Shlemon

Set a modest goal when talking to non-Christians.

Too often, we feel guilty that we didn't bring up the gospel in a conversation with our non-Christian friends. While the gospel is great to share, make a more modest and achievable goal. Try to put a stone in their shoe.

When you get a stone in your shoe, you're reminded of it every time you walk because it keeps poking you in the sole of your foot. In a similar way, try to offer your friend an intriguing thought or a gentle challenge that they can think about after you've walked away. Maybe the Holy Spirit will use what you said to poke them in their soul and change their thinking.

Of course, if you have the opportunity to share the gospel, go for it. But if not, make a modest goal to put a stone in their shoe.

Arguments Don't Have to Be Argumentative

Alan Shlemon

Arguments don't have to be argumentative. An argument is composed of two things: 1. Your point of view 2. Evidence or reason to back up your view We make arguments all the time about everyday cases we want to make—what we want to eat, or what couch to buy—and usually, we're not being argumentative when we make them. We're just explaining our view and giving a reason for it. Arguments about morality and religion should be exactly the same. We can make a case for our moral or religious convictions by stating our view and providing evidence for it, and we don't have to be aggressive, harsh, or mean about it. That way, we come across as winsome and gracious ambassadors for Christ.

Don't Be Confused by the Two Definitions of Science

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Focus on the Gospel, Not on Apologetic Arguments

Alan Shlemon

Focus on the gospel, not on apologetic arguments. Sometimes we're so eager to try out our arguments that we initiate discussions about an apologetic subject as if that's the most important thing to discuss. It's not. If you have the opportunity to bring up the gospel, that matters more than any other subject. If they reject the gospel for some reason, then you can use your apologetics to address their concern. Remember, apologetics is not an end in itself. The end is the gospel, and apologetics is simply a means to that end. Apologetics can help you remove obstacles that keep people from accepting Christ. So, if you're in a conversation, and you can lead the discussion in any direction, lead them to understand what Christ has done for them.