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Week 4

April 28, 2024

Today, I focused on the profound importance of communication within the context of our series, "The Imperfect Family." I began by acknowledging the imperfections inherent in every family, emphasizing that these imperfections do not preclude the possibility of achieving anointed relationships through effective communication. I highlighted the scriptural foundation from John 8:31-32, which underscores the liberation that comes from abiding in Jesus' words, setting the stage for a deeper exploration of communication as a spiritual and relational tool.


I delved into the critical role of communication in various family dynamics—between spouses, parents and children, and extended family members. I stressed that communication is not merely about speaking but more importantly, about listening—listening with intent, empathy, and understanding. This concept was anchored in the biblical instruction from James 1:19, to be "quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger," which provides a divine guideline for how we should engage with one another to foster peace and understanding.


Throughout the sermon, I shared personal anecdotes and broader societal observations that illustrate common communication failures. These examples served to highlight the consequences of poor communication and the transformative power of listening. I pointed out that often, we prioritize speaking over listening, which leads to misunderstandings and conflicts, not just in our immediate relationships but also in broader social interactions.


I also addressed the spiritual dimensions of communication, particularly how our communication with God mirrors our interpersonal communications. Just as we are called to listen to God, we are called to listen to each other—truly listen, not just hear. This spiritual practice of listening is not passive but an active, deliberate act that reflects our love and respect for the speaker, whether it is God or a family member.


In closing, I called on the congregation to commit to improving their communication practices, both within their families and in their daily interactions. I urged everyone to embrace the challenges of being better listeners, to engage in conversations with patience and grace, and to remember that effective communication is a testament to our love for one another and our faithfulness to God's word.