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Interview With Melody Lovvorn on Parenting Children Through a Divorce

January 31, 2020 • Alice Churnock and Melody Lovvorn

Melody and Trey Lovvorn are fond of saying, “Our divorce did not work out,” but of course when Trey’s pornography addiction came to light and they split up, they had no idea that God would heal their hearts, their marriage, and their family in the way that He did. In this episode of Ask Alice, licensed professional counselor Alice Churnock interviews Melody Lovvern about the difficulties of the divorce and its aftermath. Questions for Reflection: Melody discussed being an “elder brother” as part of her own sin. What are areas of sin that the Lord has revealed to you as you have walked through your own trauma? How did you explain the divorce to your children? Has it been difficult for you to refrain from slandering your ex? How can you use your painful experience to further the kingdom of God? Resources: http://undoneredone.com – Melody and Traylor Lovvorn’s website and organization. The Lovvorns have an excellent podcast that you will find here, as well as on iTunes. Their podcast guests have included Elyse Fitzpatrick, Jackie Hill Perry, Dan Allender, and David Zahl, among many others. The Smart Step-Family: Seven Steps to a Healthy Family by Ron L. Deal. Dinosaurs Divorce: A Guide for Changing Families by Marc Brown and Laurie Krasny Brown. An excellent resource for parents of young children, this picture book works to answer the many questions children will have when they find out their parents are divorcing. Living with Your Husband’s Secret Wars by Marsha Means. For women whose husbands are caught in a web of sexual sin. This podcast is made available to you by the Rooted Ministry for educational purposes only, not to provide specific therapeutic advice. The views expressed are the personal perspectives of the author and do not represent the views of all counselors or the profession. This podcast does not create a counselor-client relationship and should not be used as a substitute for competent therapeutic counsel from a licensed professional in your state.

Lonely Teens During the Holidays

November 22, 2019 • Ask Alice

n this episode of Ask Alice, licensed professional counselor Alice Churnock answers questions about helping teens deal with feeling left out or alone during the holidays. Alice offers gospel comfort and creative practical guidance we can give our teenagers when they find themselves uninvited, or when we discover they are actually the ones doing the excluding. Speaking to both youth ministers and parents, Alice also examines how children of divorced parents can struggle during the holidays and how we can help.

On the Topic of Suicide

October 11, 2019 • Ask Alice

In this challenging episode of Ask Alice, we hear from licensed professional counselor — Alice Churnock — on the topic of suicide. What is the difference between self harm and suicidal thoughts? What do we say to survivors of suicide? How do we help someone who we suspect is suicidal? These are just a few of the questions Alice explores in this episode.

A Conversation with Dr. Stacey Gilbert on Teenagers Struggling with Anxiety and Depression

September 13, 2019

Is your child or student struggling with anxiety and/or depression? In this informative episode of Ask Alice, licensed professional counselor, Alice Churnock, sits down with Birmingham pediatrician, Dr. Stacey Gilbert, to discuss the manifestation of anxiety and depression amongst children and teenagers. They talk counseling, medication, the gospel, and how to go about caring for your struggling child. Don’t forget to send your questions for Alice to http://askalice@rooted.com.

Dealing with Disappointment

In this episode of Ask Alice, licensed professional counselor Alice Churnock looks ahead to the start of school and discusses how to process the inevitable disappointments that come with the changes ahead. With her trademark wisdom, Alice offers practical encouragement that ministers to kids AND their parents. Don’t forget to send your questions for Alice to http://askalice@rooted.com!

Understanding Developmental Needs of Children Beyond the Classroom

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What’s going on with our kids? What do they need? What can we, as youth workers and parents, do to help meet those needs? Basically, who are our kids? In this episode of Ask Alice, licensed professional counselor Alice Churnock walks us through the basic mental and emotional development of kids, from the age of six all the way to eighteen.

Liked but Still Lonely, the Realities of iGen Relationships with Technology

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Thanks so to social media, iGen is considered the most connected generation. But relationally, the server is not found. On our second episode of Ask Alice (featuring licensed professional counselor, Alice Churnock), we consider the impact of technology on our youth, and ways to navigate the development of healthy communication.

On Spring Break and Bathing Suit Season

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Rooted Ministry is tremendously excited to announce a new ongoing podcast series, “Ask Alice,” featuring your questions addressed by licensed professional counselor and certified eating disorder specialist Alice Churnock. Alice has written for the blog and spoken at our national conference, and now her experience and wisdom will be a regular resource on our podcast! As a counselor working with teens and a mother of two, she has insight for anyone who disciples youth to follow Christ. In episode 1, Alice tackles issues teenagers tend to experience surrounding spring break and bathing suit season.