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So why bother?

February 28, 2021 • Bong Baylon

When you are frustrated and disappointed with people, you just don't become indifferent. Eventually, you become cynical. Why care for others when others don't really care? You do your best to love people but sometimes all you get in return is nothing, not even gratitude. Is it really worth it? So, why bother? This is one of the challenges of love. It's not easy when you feel this way. We need to learn how to overcome this, or else we will be just like everyone else -- cynical when it comes to love.

Been there. Done that. Whatever.

February 21, 2021 • Bong Baylon

It hurts when people do not fulfill our expectations. When it happens over and over, we get hurt even more and it becomes a repeated disappointment. When this happens, and it does not stop, we eventually become indifferent. We say to ourselves, or to others, "Been there. Done that. Whatever." This is the challenge of indifference, which is the opposite of love. How do we overcome this? Join us this Sunday for Part 3 of our Wrestling with Love series to learn how.

Stop Breaking My Heart

February 14, 2021 • Bong Baylon

Aside from unfulfilled expectations, wrestling with love also involves repeated disappointments. It's what you feel when a person keeps breaking your heart. It's not just one time but several times! How do you respond? For many of us, we just become frustrated and angry. How many times are we supposed to forgive? Forever? Join us this Sunday, Feb 14, for Part 2 of our "Wrestling with Love" series. Let's talk about this challenge and find the solution from God's word.

Unfulfilled Expectations

February 7, 2021 • Bong Baylon

It's not easy to love others. It's like entering a wrestling match. Especially during this pandemic, we tend to get into each other's nerves. There are conflicts everywhere because of unfulfilled expectations.