II Sam. 6:16. David and Michal. II Sam. 6:23 the end of the story - childless. Watching the window means believing the answer to our relationships is always out there. You can find the right person and still have the wrong relationship. Dangers of window watching. 2) window watching blurs blessings. 2) window watching finds faults II Sam 6:20. Nobody wins the blame game. 3) window watching births bitterness. 4) window watching ends intimacy. Biblical love is a choice. I Cor. 13:4-7. How you see your spouse says more about you than them.