God created marriage to be this mystery of two separate different people coming together to become one. But how does this mystery of two become one happen? The Bible says that there are two keys – love and respect. Everyone needs and wants both love and respect. However, wives deeply value being loved while husbands deeply value being respected. And God knew that so he instructs us to love and respect our spouse. There’s lots of misunderstanding about both of those keys. In this message, we’ll unpack what love and respect are and how they create oneness.