Prayer (along with reading the Bible) is one of the key foundations of a believer’s relationship with Jesus. Through these things, we truly connect, communicate, and grow with Jesus.

Imagine with me for a second: Let’s say you meet a new friend, you hang out, and it's one of the greatest experiences of your life! You enjoyed it so much, yet after meeting them you don’t make a way to stay in touch and develop your friendship greater. Wouldn’t it seem like that awesome moment of meeting would be for nothing? Especially, when there is a deeper relationship and moments ahead to get to know each other.

This example is how so many of us step into a relationship with Jesus. We meet Him, and it changes our life, but we don’t know how to grow this friendship greater. In the end, not knowing the importance of prayer can lead us to struggle in our relationship with Jesus or neglect it altogether. Prayer grows this friendship with Jesus because it is our communication with Him! Prayer is not just saying a list of wants, needs, and telling God our problems. We pray because it is the place we come to actually spend time with Him.

Prayer, like a friendship, has to start somewhere. Let’s share some thoughts and ways to jump into this relationship.

How and when do I pray? Matthew 6:6 is a great model! Start by creating a place and time where you meet with Jesus. That can be your bedroom or outside, before or after school; just find that place and time to “close the door” where it is just you and Him, with no distractions.

What and how do I pray? Again, let's look at the model Jesus gave us Himself in Matthew 6. Share with Jesus how much He means to you; start with worship, “Hallowed be Your Name!” From there just share what is on your heart actually speaking to Him with your voice. There is no right or wrong way to pray. You don’t have to overthink prayer, but see it for what it is, spending time with Jesus, sharing our hearts, hearing His voice, and growing with Him!

Prayer is the place we have all been given to meet and grow with Jesus. There is so much for you to grow into! Be encouraged; the greatest friendships simply start in the smallest of ways. This journey of prayer is ahead of you; go for it!