1. Selection - it all starts with the ingredients.
Have they committed their life to Christ?
Do they have the Fruit of the Spirit?
Do they love the Bride of Christ?
2. Preparation - it doesn't end with salvation. We must have the desire for sanctification.
Are both of you stepping into a new life with Christ?
3. Plug into the power source - your family needs to be plugged into God's family to have the power of God work in and through it.