Honor is Respect-
The Fifth Commandment~
The First Commandment With A Promise~
Attached to it~
Exodus 20:12 - “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the LORD your God is giving you.”
The fifth commandment stands as a pivotal instruction, connecting our relationship with God
(the vertical)
Relationship with others (the horizontal).
God IS Our Father~
1. UNDERSTANDING HONOR
The Meaning of “Honor”
Leviticus 19:3 - “Each of you must respect your mother and father, and you must observe my Sabbaths. I am the LORD your God.”
Remember Each Law of the Ten Commandments Are The Outline Statement~.
Then Explained By Moses Inspired By The Holy Spirit~ to Bring Definition~
The Hebrew word for "honor" signifies weight or respect, implying the deep reverence due to parents.
Means To ~ Uphold Values, Protect and Defend~
The Bible warns children to honor their parents with loving obedience.
Romans 13:7 give honor to whom honor is due.
Ephesians 6:2 - “Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise—“so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.”
The Law Said To Those Who Defile Is Death ~
Honor through Respect
Scripture References:
Proverbs 13:1 - “A wise son heeds his father’s instruction, but a mocker does not respond to rebukes.”
Proverbs 23:22 - “Listen to your father, who gave you life, and do not despise your mother when she is old.”
Proverbs 20:20 - “If someone curses their father or mother, their lamp will be snuffed out in pitch darkness.”
Point: Honoring parents means respecting their position, guidance, and wisdom. This respect also includes guarding their dignity.
2 HONOR THROUGH OBEDIENCE
Ephesians 6:1 - “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.”
God values obedience to parents as it reflects divine order and pleases Him.
Faith and Works are Connected The Promise Clutching to the Promiser
The Promiser Granting To the Promised ~
"God, who cannot lie" in Titus 1:2. in hope of eternal life which God, who cannot lie, promised before time began,
Other Bible verses that mention God not being a liar include Numbers 23:19
“God is not a man, that He should lie, Nor a son of man, that He should repent. Has He said, and will He not do? Or has He spoken, and will He not make it good?
Hebrews 6:18
that by two immutable things, in which it is impossible for God to lie, we might have strong consolation, who have fled for refuge to lay hold of the hope set before us.
Obedience to Parents
Scripture Reference: Ephesians 6:1 - “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.”
Point: God values obedience to parents as it reflects divine order and pleases Him.
Biblical Warnings Against Disobedience
Scripture References:
Romans 1:28-30 - “They are gossips, slanderers, God-haters, insolent, arrogant, and boastful; they invent ways of doing evil; they disobey their parents.”
2 Timothy 3:1-2 - “But mark this: There will be terrible times in the last days. People will be… disobedient to their parents.”
Disobedience is a sign of a fallen world and a warning of the last days. However, obedience to parents aligns with God’s design for human flourishing.
2 Tim. 3:3 But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come:
2 For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy,
3 unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good,
4 traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God,
5 having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away!
The Why People Talk to their Mothers and Fathers is So Gross~
Movies make parents look like their Mentality Disabled~
Limits of Obedience
Love God First~
Do you love God More than Me~
I was waiting for some sympathetic response and She Said~
Of Course I Do~
Without Him I wouldn’t have you and you wouldn’t have me~
Matthew 10:37 - “Anyone who loves their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me.”
Obedience to parents is not absolute. The first allegiance is always to God.
3 HONOR THROUGH CARE
1 Timothy 5:4
1.Caring for Parents in Old Age
Scripture Reference: 1 Timothy 5:4 - “But if a widow has children or grandchildren, these should learn first of all to put their religion into practice by caring for their own family and so repaying their parents and grandparents, for this is pleasing to God.”
Point: Honoring parents includes providing for their needs, especially as they age.
2.Jesus’ Example from the Cross
Scripture Reference: John 19:26-27 - “When Jesus saw his mother there, and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said to her, ‘Woman, here is your son,’ and to the disciple, ‘Here is your mother.’ From that time on, this disciple took her into his home.”
Jesus exemplifies honoring parents by ensuring care for His mother even in His final moments.
4. GOD'S PROMISE ATTACHED TO HONORING PARENTS
Deuteronomy 5:16 -
“Honor your father and your mother, as the LORD your God has commanded you, so that you may live long and that it may go well with you in the land the LORD your God is giving you.”
Point: Honoring parents is uniquely attached to a promise of well-being and longevity.
1.The Family as the Foundation of Society
In the Book of Genesis, Noah cursed Noah's grandson Canaan after Noah's son Ham committed a shameful act of Mocking his Fathers Sin of Drunkenness
Genesis 9:23 - “Shem and Japheth took a garment and laid it across their shoulders; then they walked in backward and covered their father’s naked body.”
The stability and longevity of a society are directly connected to the strength and unity of families, which begins with honoring parents.
LOVE COVERS~
Those who try to expose the sin of others will bring curses upon themselves~
God Is the Judge~
Jesus Matthew 7:1 said Condemn Not Lest You be condemned~
Galatians 6:1 You are to have the spirit of Restoring and covering Not Exposing~
Traditional Values and Societal Blessing
Example: Many cultures that emphasize family honor, such as Asian societies, demonstrate societal stability and longevity, although this can also lead to familial abuse if misapplied.
GOD'S MESSAGE TO PARENTS: HONORING YOUR CHILDREN
Respect Your Children
Scripture Reference: Ephesians 6:4 - “Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.”
Point: Just as children must honor parents, parents must honor their children by respecting their individuality.
Encouraging Children in God’s Will
Scripture Reference: Proverbs 22:6 - “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”
Parents are called to discover and nurture the unique gifts and callings of their children in alignment with God’s will.
Honoring Parents: Ask God for grace to find new ways to honor parents through respect, obedience, and care
Honoring Children: Parents, seek to honor your children by respecting them, guiding them in God’s will, and leading by example.
Reconciliation: Pray for healing in broken parent-child relationships through the reconciling power of Jesus Christ.
Malachi 4:5-6 - “He will turn the hearts of the parents to their children, and the hearts of the children to their parents; or else I will come and strike the land with total destruction.”
The promise of blessing for honoring parents extends to society, and through Christ, reconciliation between generations is possible. Through this, societies are blessed and strengthened