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Good morning, welcome to Mosaic. My name is John I'm with the pastors here, along pastor Shane and pastor Andy. If you're new or if you're visiting, we'd love to connect with you. Do that through the connection card in the worship guide, either the physical one or the virtual one in the app or on the website, you fill it out and then get it to us. We'll get in touch with you over the course of the week.

Quick announcement; April 2nd is good Friday, we have a service here at 6:00 PM. Easter, we have three services, 8:30, 10:15, and noon. Just keep that on your calendar. Then also, plan to invite some friends to one of, or all services. They'll be tremendous, by God's grace. Also, we have another prayer service tonight, the second of three. Tonight and then next week, that is at 5:00 PM. Love to see you at that as well.

That said, would you please pray with me over the preaching of God's holy word? Heavenly father, we thank you that you though being a holy God, did not leave us in our sins, though that's what we deserved. That you could have damned us for all of eternity. You could have sent us on our way. That's where we were headed, to spend eternity apart from you in a place called hell. That's what we deserve. We recognize that, we own that. We sense that that's the bad news. It's terrible news. But we thank you for Jesus Christ.

Jesus, we thank you that you came, you lived a perfect life. You lived that perfect life, so that we would not have to bear condemnation. Because you did that on the cross for us, you were condemned, you were damned, you were canceled. And you did that in order to cancel the record of our indebtedness to God. We thank you for grace. We thank you that we can be saved. We thank you that we can be forgiven. We thank you that we can be redeemed no matter what we've done.

There is always hope for redemption while our heart is beating. We thank you for that. I pray that you make us a people who receive that grace and extend that grace, that graciousness. You are a God who is loving and you're slow to anger. You are patient and you're steadfast, in your loving kindness. We thank you for that. Make us the people who receive it and extend it in the same way that Jesus extends it to us. We pray this in Christ's Holy name. Amen.

If you're new, we are in the Sermon on the Mount. The Sermon on the Mount is the greatest sermon ever preached by the greatest preacher who ever preached, that's Jesus Christ himself, the son of God, son of man. He doesn't just give us wisdom, he doesn't just teach us how to live, he also extends grace to us and the Holy Spirit that empowers us to live this brand new life. A life that is to the full, a life of loving kindness, a life of discernment and a life of grace.

Today, we are in Matthew 7:1-12. Next week, we'll finish off this sermon series. The title of my sermon is, Don't Cancel People. We live in a censorious culture, people getting canceled left and right. JK Rowling, Gina Carano, Mike Lindell, Goya, Mr. Potato Head, Dr. Seuss and Jemima, Uncle Ben, cancel, cancel, cancel. Donald Trump, canceled. Four years' president, disappears. You can't even say his name, without feeling uncomfortable in the room. Cancel, cancel, cancel.

How do we respond to the cancel culture? The natural response is, "You cancel me, I'm going to cancel you twice as hard." That's the natural response. What's the Christian response? The Christian response goes like this, "We recognize we all deserve to be canceled. We all deserve to be damned. We all deserve to be condemned, forever. But thanks be to Jesus Christ who came to uncancel us."

Jesus called canceled people his friends. The people who were ostracized by society, written off. You are dead to society, if you were a prostitute or an adulterer or tax collector or a pagan. Jesus befriends these people. His closest circle of friends included the worst of the worst, the guiltiest of the guilty. He befriends them, he forgives the outcast, the misfit, the leper, the liar, the adulterer.

He refused to dismiss the dismissed. He refused to reject the rejected. He accepted them. He forgave the denounced. He pardoned. He gave grace. Jesus Christ, how did he do that? How can God, a Holy God, just forgive? He can't just forgive. Because he's just. Jesus Christ comes and on the cross, he says, "My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?" Why did God, the father, forsake God, the son. Because God, the son, took our condemnation upon himself. God, the son, was canceled on the cross, in order to cancel the record of our indebtedness against God. He's taken away, nailing it to the cross.

It's from that perspective, that we look at Matthew 7, where Jesus gives us some of the most famous verses from all of scripture. But it's from that perspective, that he tells us to be careful in how we judge. Today we're in Matthew 7:1-12, would you look at the text with me. "Judge not, that you be not judged. For with the judgment you pronounced, you will be judged. With the measure you use, it will be measured to you. Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, "Let me take the speck out of your eye," when there is the log in your own eye. You hypocrite. First, take the log out of your own eye, then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye."

"Do not give dogs what is holy, do not throw your pearls before the pigs. Lest they trample them underfoot and turn to attack you. Ask and it will be given to you, seek and you will find, knock and it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives and the one who seeks, finds, and to the one who knocks, it will be opened."

"For which one of you, if his son asks him for bread will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish will give him a serpent. If you then who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children? How much more will your father who is in heaven, give good things to those who ask him? Whatever you wish that others would do to you, do also to them, for this as the law and the prophets." This is the reading of God's holy, infallible, authoritative word. May write these eternal truths upon our hearts. Three points to frame over time. Christian judging, Christian asking, Christian loving.

First, is Christian judging. Jesus goes from addressing our attitudes toward money and possessions, that's the past two pericopes, the paragraphs. Now, he transitions to talking about our attitudes toward people. "Judge not, lest you be judged." What does that mean? Does that means we get rid of teachers? Does that mean we can get rid of grades, coaches, umpires, referees, cops, judges, courts, accountability, responsibility? Is that what he's saying?

Can't be. Because even in this text he says, "You're hypocrites." That's a judgment call. Call some people pigs and dogs. Judgment call. Jesus had very choice words for the religious elites and for politicians. Herod, he calls him the fox. Pharisees, whitewashed tombs, brood of Vipers. Those are all judgment calls. He had very hard words for hard hearted people, to wake them up to the reality.

He's obviously not saying don't make judgment calls. He's not saying don't practice this sermon because there's no way around it. Even if someone comes to you and says, "Hey, you're in sin," and your response is, "Don't judge me." That person at that second, is judging, your judging of them. You can't get around it. He's not saying, "Don't judge." 1 Corinthians 10:15 says, "I speak to you as sensible people, judge for yourselves, what I say." We are to judge. We are to make judgment calls.

He doesn't say, "Do not judge ever," in terms of discernment. Here we get into linguistic analysis. What does judge mean? It's a Greek word, krino, has two definitions. The first one is condemnation, to condemn. The second one is, to discern. He's not saying, don't discern, he's saying do not condemn. Condemnation without the hope of redemption. That's what he's saying.

Matthew 7:6, "Do not give dogs what is holy. Do not throw your pearls before pigs, lest they trample them underfoot and turn to attack you." Dogs here are not pets, dogs here, he's talking about wild, unclean, filthy animals. And the priests who go into the temple and part of the sacrifice he'll present to God, that's the holy part and part the priests would eat. The Holy part is that which is given to God. You don't take that and give it to a wild dog, because that would be an abomination. That would be desecration.

Same thing with the pig. The pig, you don't throw a Pearl to a pig, because the pig does not sense its value. The dog does not sense the value of the holy part. Jesus here is talking about animals that don't sense the realities, other than the physical. They're only driven by appetites. They don't see the beauty. They don't treasure the treasure. Jesus in other parts of scripture tells the disciples, "Go preach the gospel. If you go to villages where people just reject you, they don't want to hear the message of redemption, because they don't sense a need for being forgiven, because of self-righteousness, because of pride." He says, "In those cases, shake off the dust from your feet of that village."

Meaning, those people who have had ample opportunity to hear, receive the good news and have decisively, even defiantly rejected it, we need to have a discernment of when pushing the gospel on people, isn't really helpful. It's discernment, some spiritual sensitivity. We are to be discerning. Matthew 7:15-20, few verses below our text, Jesus says, "Beware of the false prophets, who come to you in sheep's clothing, but inwardly are ravenous wolves. You'll recognize them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thorn bushes or figs from thistles? So every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit. A healthy tree cannot bear bad fruit nor can a diseased tree bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus, you will recognize them by their fruits."

We are to be discerning. We are to know the truth, know the scriptures, know the gospel and have a spiritual sixth sense, so to speak, that goes off when we hear lies, and when we see that the fruit isn't a fruit of the spirit. Hebrews 5:14 says, "But solid food is for the mature, for those who have their powers of discernment, trained by constant practice to distinguish good from evil." We have to grow, we have to train our discernment.

Scripture talks often about judging that's lawful and that's required in the word of God. There's ecclesiastical or in the church, judging. Matthew 18, if a brother or sister sinned against you, you go to them, you have a conversation with them. You call out their sin. "Hey, you've sinned against me. Let's have a conversation. Ecclesiastical judging. The civil government judges, Romans 13 talks about that. Private judging, where in family and relationships, you help one another fight the good fight, by calling out sin, speaking, truth and love.

There are times to judge. What's Jesus talking about here, when he says, "Do not judge, let's do be judged?" The word hypocrite is used. Do not do it hypocritically. That's really the whole context of the Sermon on the Mount. Jesus over and over and over and over and over says there's two paths. There's the authentic, spiritual, gracious, humble walk with the Lord, and there's the prideful, lies and hypocritical, inauthentic, mask-wearing.

Matthew 5:24, "I tell you, unless your righteousness exceeds that of the scribes and Pharisees, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven." Jesus, in his mind, he has a group of people, the Pharisees. The Pharisees who have taken God's law and they turn it upside down, instead of loving God and loving people, they've loved self and used God and people. Matthew 21:26, he says, "Do not get angry, like the hypocrites, but love like Jesus." The next text, "Do not lust like the hypocrites, but be pure in heart, like Jesus."

Then he says, "Do not divorce like the hypocrites, but be faithful to your spouse, like Jesus. Do not lie like the hypocrites, but always be truthful, like Jesus. Do not retaliate like the hypocrites, but seek reconciliation, like Jesus. Do not hate your enemies, like a hypocrite, but be perfect as your heavenly father is perfect. Do not practice your righteousness like the hypocrites, but be righteous, like Jesus. Do not give to be seen like the hypocrites, but give to meet needs like Jesus. Do not pray like the hypocrites, do not fast like the hypocrites, do not lay treasures up like the hypocrites. Do not be anxious, like the hypocrites."

Then we get to text, "Do not judge like the hypocrites, that you be not judged, like the hypocrites." The Pharisees, thought highly of themselves. They held utter contempt for those on the outside, for those who weren't as righteous as they were, for those who weren't as virtuous as they were. They judged, not to help people seek redemption, but in order to demean.

There's a parable that Jesus gives of the Pharisee and the tax collector. They come into church together. And the Pharisee prays out loud and says, "God, I thank you that I'm not like that guy. I thank you, that I fast twice a week and I tithe and I am a good person. Thank you for that. I'm not extortioners, unjust, adulterous or even like this tax collector."

The tax collector comes in and he can't even look up and be judged. "Condemn not," see there it's clarified. "Condemn not and you will not be condemned. Forgive and you will be forgiven." John 7:24, "Do not judge by appearances, but judge with right judgment." John 8:15, "You judge, according to the flesh, I judge no one." Then we're told don't do it hypocritically and don't judge from a position of God, where you cast this person out as if you're God.

God is merciful, God is gracious. While we're still alive, there's still room for redemption. Romans 14:4, "Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It is before his own master that he stands or falls and he will be upheld. For the Lord is able to make him stand." We're not to judge in the position of God, we're not to judge hastily or rashly. We're to give people the benefit of the doubt. They're sinners, we're sinners.

Proverbs 18:13, "If one gives an answer before he hears, it is his folly and shame." This discernment that we need, we need to gather the information, before jumping to conclusions. Really, the emphasis is on the hypocrisy. Romans 2:1, "Therefore, you have no excuse oh man, every one of you who judges. For in passing judgment on another, you condemn yourself." Because you would the judge, practice the very same things. That's the issue.

We're sinners. Before dealing with our own sin, we start sinning others, that's what he's getting at. Francis Schaeffer, a great apologist of the 20th century, he said, "All God needs to condemn us 1,000 times over, is to hang a tape recorder around our neck and judge us with the same standard that we have for other people." We do have standards for other people. We judge all the time.

Our culture, it's promoting judging. There's ratings and reviews for absolutely everything. We've got a one star review. Our church got a one-star review two weeks ago. I know the person that gave it, because I just had a conversation with that person. I go home and I get an email from Google that we got a one star review from that person. If you gave us, I'd really appreciate a conversation. Please retract it. Because now we're at 4.9.

For the rest of you, do a very simple evangelistic work today and go on Google and give us a five star review, please, and leave a little paragraph and things like that. Everyone's just out to judge. It's the hypocritical judging that he's getting at.

What happened to David and Nathan, David commits adultery with Bathsheba, murders her husband. A year passes, and he's just so blinded by his own sin. Then Nathan, the prophet, comes to him. Tells them a story, about a rich man who had lots of sheep. He goes to the poor man, steals his sheep in order to entertain his friends. Nathan comes to David, tells him that story. David's anger is kindled. He says, "That man will pay four times. Four-fold for his sin."

2 Samuel 12:5-7, says, "Then David's anger was greatly kindled against the man." He said to Nathan, "As the Lord lives, the man who has done this deserves to die and he shall restore the lamb fourfold, because he did this thing and because he had no pity." Nathan said to David, "You are the man." You are that guy. This is what Jesus is getting at. He doesn't say we can't discern. He doesn't say we can't have judgment calls. No. There's no way around that.

But Matthew 7:3-5, this is what he's getting at. "Why do you see the speck that is in your brother's eye and do not notice the log that is in your own eye." This is an illustration from a carpenter's workshop. The spec is just the sawdust and the plank or the log. This is a beam. Meaning like a weight bearing beam, load bearing beam. It's like a telephone pole.

You're saying you want to help someone who's got a little speck in his eye, when you've got a big, massive log coming out of your own eye? What's that spec? How can you say to your brother, "Let me take the speck out of your own eye, when there's a logging and your own. You hypocrite, first take out the log that is in your own eye, then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye."

What is the spec? We understand that's a sin. Every single one of us, we have specks in our eyes. That's sin. And Jesus says, "But be careful, that you do not have a log." What's the log? Separate from the spec, the log here is the thing that keeps you from seeing reality as it truly is. In the context of about pigs and dogs, the log is what makes the spiritual, imperceptible. The log is what makes you relegate it to just physical appetites. What is this log?

This log is the only sin that God cannot forgive. What is this log? What is the sin that God cannot forgive? It's the sin of pride, self-Righteousness, where you think you're better than others, and that's why you judge. "You're not as good as I am. No redemption for you because I don't need to be redeemed, because I have done enough good." That's the log that's in the eye of every single person. And the more good things you do, the bigger that log is. It's your resume of virtues.

The more you do apart from God, the bigger it gets and the more you judge other people, because they're just not as good as you. Self-righteousness, that's what's at the root of canceling people, literal condemnation. "You're worthless. I'm through with you. You are dead to me." It's self-righteousness. There's no grace, because you don't see your own need for grace. Matthew 7:24, "With the judgment you pronounce, you will be judged. With the measure you use, it will be measured to you."

There's two options here. Two options in this text. Option number one is, you say, no one can possibly live up to the standards of Jesus, therefore, let's get rid of them. The other option is, no one can live up to the standards of Jesus, I need to repent of my sin, where I do not live up to the standards of Jesus. I need to ask Jesus to take out the log from my eye, the plank from my eye.

I do that by recognizing, it's that plank of pride and self righteous. It's those two planks that Jesus Christ was crucified upon, to take out the plank from my eye. When I realized that, now, I'm in a position where, there is hope for redemption. There is forgiveness, there is mercy, there is grace, and I can change. Instead of changing God instead of changing his rules, because I can't live up to them, instead of throwing them out and writing our own rules and trying to create heaven on earth, without God. Instead of doing that, I recognize his standard is holy. He is righteous.

I can't change God. He's immutable. I need to ask for forgiveness. The standard is still the standard. I do my best on a daily basis, receiving grace by the power of the spirit to live up to the standard. I never do it perfectly.

Driving the car yesterday, my wife was talking about my oldest daughter. My oldest daughter is 12. I got a 12 year old at my house. That's challenging. Our 12 year old is at the point where she has a tremendous memory. When we say things that she should do, and we don't do those things, she has a record of all the things that we don't do. She called mom a hypocrite. I was like, "Oh, that's fascinating. You're a 12 year old. You wouldn't even be here, if it wasn't for us."

Then she said, "How about you, dad, are you a hypocrite?" I said, "100%. I'm barely a Christian. I'm a by accident, Christian. I look at myself, I'm like, I can't believe God saved me." There's other people I look at, I'm like, "I could see that God of the universe had died for you." For me, "I wouldn't die for me. I can't believe it."

We're all hypocrites. We're all unrighteous. We're all self-righteous. That's what Jesus is saying in Matthew 7:5, "You hypocrite." You're like, "Ah, that doesn't feel very good." But it's true. It's absolutely true. You're a hypocrite, I'm a hypocrite. We're all hypocrites. "First take out the log out of your own eye, then you will see clearly take the speck out of your brother's eye." He says, you do it. You take out the log.

This is what Christianity says, is you do it. As you try to do it, you realize just how painstaking this, and you can do it and you need Jesus. Ever got something in your eye? It's the worst feeling ever. The smallest thing, the worst thing. You can do everything you possibly can and you can't get it out. Then who do you allow to do it, someone you really trust.

That's really what becoming a Christian is. It's, "Lord, please take this out." Then that's justification. Sanctification is, when we on a daily basis, look at our own life, is there a log? Is there a spec? You apply the judgment that you apply to other people. What he's saying is, the way that you judge other people, apply that same standard to yourself, 100 times more meticulously, then you'll begin to understand what he's saying here.

The way that we do it is, we can be brutally honest with ourselves about our own faults. We can be brutally honest because, there's always grace. There there's always redemption. We don't have to hide it from Jesus Christ. This is what the gospel is. We haven't met the standard, Jesus has. He gives us grace for our sin. We're all dogs, and wild pigs in of ourselves.

We don't sense the beauty of spirituality. We don't sense the beauty of God in of ourselves. We have cold, hard hearts and we're just focused and preoccupied with physical appetites. We're all pigs. Jesus is the pearl. When we look to the cross and we realize that Jesus Christ was thrown to the pigs, he was thrown to dogs, he was crucified on our behalf. He did that for us, that's when we begin to see the value of Christ, that he was crucified on our planks and our beams, in order to save us.

We love the concept of forgiveness. We love the concept of grace. We love that. But the concept of forgiveness assumes judgment. And what our culture has done, we've tried to get rid of the moral code, although it's still written on our hearts. We try to get rid of that. There's no standard, there's no judgment, but there's only grace and forgiveness. I know you can't have forgiveness without the standard. God offers us the forgiveness, but first we need to realize, that we have sinned and we have the spiritual cancer.

If you have cancer and you go to the doctor and the doctor says you have cancer, is he judging you? No, he's not. He's diagnosing you. That's what the gospel does. That's what Jesus does. When you realize that's what he does for us in order to heal us in order to forgive us, we receive the grace and now, we can help others do the same, from a position of humility. "I'm not better than you."

Every single one of us, we are wicked sinners, deserving hell, but Jesus saved me. You know what? I think he could save you. You got to repent of your sin, of your self-righteousness. Practical applications here, in terms of judgment, first, we got to check yourself, you got to check your own spiritual eye for a plank, for a speck. 1 Corinthians 11:28, talking about communion, "Let a person examine himself, and so eat of the bread and drink of the cup."

Examine. Self-examination. What sins in my life are just... They're there. They're lodged in my eye. I need to repent and to leave that sin. James 4:16, "Therefore confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power, as it's working." We need to confess our sins to God and sometimes it's helpful to confess them to others, when it's just lodged in their habitual sin, "I can't get rid of it." Find a brother and sister whom you trust and share it and confess and fight the good fight together.

Also, we need to learn how to take judgment. As Christians, as brothers and sisters, we need to learn how to receive truth. We're to speak truth with grace. We are also to receive it and not be like a dog biting back or a pig on the attack, when people come to us and they point out a sin in our lives. What's the first reaction? Is it defensive? Putting a guard, "Who are you to judge me?"

Or, is it from a position of, "I am a sinner. Thanks for pointing that out. Let me think about that. That's really important. Psalm 141:5, "Let a righteous man strike me, it is a kindness. Let him rebuke me, It is oil for my head. Let my head not refuse it yet. Yet my prayer is continually against their evil deeds." Proverbs 9:8, "Do not reprove a scoffer or he will hate you. Reprove a wise man and he will love you." Proverbs 27:6, "Faithful are the wounds of a friend, profuse are the kisses of an enemy." Proverbs 25:12, "Like a gold ring or an ornament of gold, is a wise reprove to a listening ear."

Also we are to learn, to give truth to people with grace. It's truth with grace. When you do that, there is a potential for you to be canceled, dear Christian. When you take a stance for Christ, for truth, you will be persecuted and more and more so in our culture that is growing more and more godless. We aren't to be surprised by that, at all. We need to expect it. That's what Jesus said, "I have been hated, you will be hated as well on my account by some. But others will hear it and will be regenerated by the Holy Spirit."

Because of our witness, eternally changed for that person. That's why it's worth it. It's worth it. We'll take the hate. We'll take the persecution. But there are some who will be drawn to Christ and it's worth it, 100%.

Second is Christian asking, Matthew 7:7-11, "Ask and it will be given to you, seek and you will find, knock and it will be opened to you. For anyone who asks, receives, and the one who seeks, finds and to the one who knocks, it will be opened." Ask before we seek. It assumes humility. Instead of first pursuing whatever it is you want, you need to ask. Lord, is this good? Is this right? Is this is from you? There is growth. Ask, before we seek, seek before we know.

Then he says, "Which of you, if his son asks him for bread will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a serpent? If you then who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your father was in heaven, give good gifts to those who ask?" This is an argument from the less to the greater. If a human father, who is sinful and selfish as we all are, we are.

I used to think I was a selfless person before I got married and then realized how selfish I was. Then just progress with every kid. I thought I was a selfless person. Then I had a kid. Here's the thing about having a kid? You have the kid, so cute, but you just give up all of your naps forever. You will never have another nap. It's gone. But even with our sinful, selfish natures, we care for our children's needs. That's what he's saying. If sinful, human fathers do, how much more will a perfect and infinitely loving father, provide for our needs, give us what we need?

Not necessarily we always ask for, because how terrible the thing would it be if God always gave us what we ask for? It's fascinating how Jesus just slips in, in this context of like, "Do not judge," he calls us hypocrites and calls some people dogs and pigs. Then he also calls us evil here. He just slips that in. Because he's the king of the universe. He brings in, "You are evil," slips that in as the most obvious and incontestable fact. We're all evil, even at our best.

Humans are at their best when they're providing for children. Even at our best, we are evil. We are dogs, we are pigs. We deserve nothing by condemnation. We can't stand before God on our rights, on our moral record, on our virtues, on the basis of anything. We're unfit for blessing. From this perspective, we can now begin to understand blessings. It absolutely changes your life. When you understand that you deserve nothing but hell and condemnation, everything else in life is icing on the cake.

I'm alive today. I'm breathing. Had some coffee. I'm going to have lunch later. Incredible blessings. It just changes your perspective. I get to live in Boston and share the gospel with people. They're going to bite. They're going to kick. They're going to fight back. Well, I deserve nothing... It changes absolutely everything. God is gracious to us. Instead of getting offended, that Jesus called me a hypocrite, instead of getting offended that I'm evil, instead of getting offended, that I got a big log in my eye, instead of getting offended that I'm a dog or a pig, instead, take that as grace from God to wake you up, to change you from the inside out.

There's a story in Matthew 15:21-28, a very controversial story, where Jesus calls a woman a dog. And here's the story. "Jesus went away from there and withdrew the district of Tyre and Sidon. And behold Canaanite woman from that region came out and was crying, "Have mercy on me O Lord, son of God. My daughter is severely oppressed by a demon." This is a mother at her best, saying that her child is being possessed, is suffering under demonic possession. Comes to Jesus asking for help.

But he did not answer her a word. His disciples came and begged him saying, "Send her away, for she's crying out after us." We see the persistence. He answered to her, "I was sent only to the lost sheep of the house of Israel." But she came and knelt before him saying, "Lord, help me." He answered, "It's not right to take the children's bread and throw it to the dogs." She said, "Yes, Lord. Even the dogs eat the crumbs that fall from their master's table." Then Jesus answered her, "Oh woman, great is your faith. Be it done for you as you desire." And her daughter was healed instantly.

I saw this TikTok, I'm old enough for that to be funny. I saw this TikTok of a pastor. Apparently this pastor is on TikTok. Certain kind of pastors are on TikTok. This guy read this text and he said, "Jesus is a racist." Jesus sees a woman of another race and he's being racist to her. Then she points out the work that he needs to do to fight his racism, like internal work, and then Jesus repents and he changes and now he's no longer a racist.

False. False. That's false. Jesus is never sin. Perfect son of God. He's not a racist. You can't read scripture through these lenses of you judging God. It's not going to end well. Jesus here, what's going on? It's not about race here, it's not about pedigree. Because Jesus said, "What makes a person unclean is the heart." We're not dogs because of race, that's not what's going on. We're all sinners. We're all dogs.

She doesn't assert her rights. She doesn't come to Jesus demanding, "Jesus, you owe me. You owe me." Even on the basis of her suffering. A lot of people come to God on the basis of their suffering. "God, you owe me." God doesn't owe us anything. We are degenerate sinners. We deserve nothing but hell. She comes to them and she acknowledges, humbly. "I am a dog. I'm not a child. I have sinned. I have allowed evil into my life. I deserve nothing."

And she doesn't walk away, discouraged, and she's hanging her head. She recognized, "I am unworthy and you're merciful. I am unworthy, but there's enough bread on that table, even for me. I don't deserve a crumb, but I know who you are. You're a gracious God." And she gets what she desired. "Be it done for you, as you desire." This text is not just about our prayer life, that's part of it. But it's about our posture before God. That we are to come to God with humility.

"God, I don't deserve anything. God, I am a rebel. I'm not a child. But because of Jesus Christ, I can be adopted into the family of God and I can come to you and I can pray, persistently." Scripture talks about praying with impudence, shamelessness, unblushing persistence, relentlessly, audaciously, tenaciously asking God. And God honors that persistence.

My daughter Milana, she's three, almost four. She's born with this persistence. Whenever she wants something... By the way, our family has four kids. Wherever we go, it's a crowd. To get your voice heard, you need to persist. Whenever our families get together, my sister has four kids, my other sister has two kids. I have four siblings. Whenever we get together as a family, it's the persistent and the loudest person that gets heard.

My daughter Milana, she learned that. She learned that cheat code to our family. And she will nag you and persist. She has the same forehead and eyebrow thing that I do, where she gives you all of her emotions with her face and she's like, "Papa, papa, papa, I need this thing." I'm like, "Fine. Take it. Just get away from me. Leave me alone." That's kind of how God says that we should pray, nag him, persistent in prayer. He honors that persistence and the expectancy. "I expect you to answer. I expect that you will give me what I need. Not necessarily what I want. I expect."

So prayer is more than just asking for stuff. It's asking for more of the presence of God, because when you persist, when you keep at it, you're getting more of God. Jeremiah 29, 11-14: "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "Plans for welfare, not for evil, to give you a future and a hope. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me and I will hear you and you will seek me and find me. When you seek me with all your heart, I will be found by you," declares the Lord.

Our most fervent prayers should be not just to God, but for God. "God, I want more of you." That's what Luke 11:13, the parallel passage, that's what it ends with. "If you then who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children? How much more will the heavenly father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him?" What's the greatest thing that God can give us? It's more of himself. A greater measure of himself. More of his presence, more of his face. When we ask, when we seek, when we knock, as we do, we are to ask and seek and knock, for more of the Holy Spirit.

Three, is Christian loving, Matthew 7:12. "Whatever you wish that others would do to you do also to them for this is the law and the prophets." This is all of Christian ethics, all of Christian morality, in one verse. By the way, this is how Jesus ends the ethical section of the whole Sermon on the Mount. After this text, he talks about a saving relationship with God. Here, he ends all of ethics, all of the ethical stuff, with saying, "Whatever you wish that others would do to you do also for them."

This is the greater righteousness that Jesus expects from his disciples. The statement, in its negative form, is found in lots of ancient writings. This is why if you study Christianity and world religions in high school and college, this is what they say, "Oh, Jesus didn't really say anything unique. All other religions have it." They have it in the negative form. The negative form is, do not do to others what you wouldn't want to be done for you."

We see this from Athenian philosophers, the Jewish rabbi, rabbi Hillel said, "What is hateful to you, do not do to your fellow creatures." It's found in the teachings of Confucius. And so, in human beings, we're creating the image of God. The moral code is written on our hearts. We know what is required of us, in the negative form. And the negative form, you don't want to get robbed, don't Rob someone. You don't want to get cussed out, don't cuss out other people. You don't want to be hated, don't hate other people. We know that.

What is unnatural to us, is the positive form. It's absolutely unnatural. It's supernatural. It's higher, it's more proactive. If you enjoy being loved, love others. If you enjoy being encouraged and appreciated, encourage and appreciate others. If you enjoy generosity, then give to others. It's really an elaboration of Leviticus, 19:18, it says, "You shall love your neighbor as yourself." It's unselfish love to others, to strangers.

Bishop Ryle said this, "It settles 100 difficult points, which in a world like this, are continually arising between people. It prevents the necessity of laying down, endless little rules for our conduct and specific cases. It sweeps the whole debatable ground, with one mighty principle. This is the operating principle and it should be for every situation of life.

For marriage, it's the key, it's the secret to marriage. If you want a back rub, if you enjoy back rubs, give your spouse a back rub. Scratch hard with the nails, like that. Do that. With children, raise your children, do onto them as you would have them do onto you. It changes every situation in life. At work, on the T, on the highway, on the street, it changes dating, it changes marriage, it changes parenting, friendship, church membership.

And it changes judging. That's why he starts with that and he ends with that. Think about how you want to be treated, how you want to be judged when you need correction, then treat others the same way. It takes a certain wisdom. It's not natural. It takes wisdom. A lot of people talk them about nowadays emotional intelligence. All emotional intelligence really is, is pretending you're the other person. Putting yourself in their shoes, recognizing, understanding, sympathizing, empathizing with their situation. "How would I want to be treated?" And treat them the same way?

Anyone who's really tried to live like this, knows how punishingly difficult it is. Because we are all vain and proud and selfish and self-centered. How much time did you think about yourself this morning? All the time. You spent all the time thinking about yourself. Thinking about what you're going to eat and thinking about how you need to fix your hair, thinking about whatever. And being able to put yourself in the position, that's what he's saying. We can't do it on our own.

How can we become more selfless and more humble and more sincere, through the gospel, recognizing that the only person who's really done this completely, of putting themselves in my place, the only one that's really done that, is Jesus Christ. He 100% put himself in your place on the cross. When you realize that, "On the cross, Jesus put himself in my place in order to forgive me and change me," that's selflessness. Now, we begin to understand, I can now put myself in another person's place.

Then how else? Through prayer. By asking, seeking and knocking, for the more important blessings. Not just physical stuff, of God to change our hearts and change our characters. The golden rule can only be understood in this context. We pray, "Forgive us our debts, as we have also forgiven our debtors. Forgive us as we forgive others. You've forgiven us, now I can forgive others."

It's generous judgment. When we see people in sin, when we see people who were trying to cancel us, there's a generous discernment and judgment where we leave the door open for redemption. Redemption that was given to us. Kanye West once said, "I've been canceled before they had canceled culture." Cancel culture goes back much further than Kanye West. Cancel culture goes back all the way back to when Jesus Christ stood before Pilate. And Pilate, after looking at all the facts, he says, "I've found no fault in this man. I've examined him in your presence. I found no fault in him. He's done nothing deserving of death." And the mob, what did they cry out? "Crucify him! Crucify him!." Cancel him. He is dead to us. They did that to the greatest person who ever lived.

And Jesus allowed it to happen. Why did he allow this to happen? Why did he allow evil to triumph? Because this is the only way for him to triumph over evil. This was the only way for Jesus to forgive us of our evil. This is the only way of Jesus not condemning us, by taking our condemnation upon himself. Psalm 22, written centuries before crucifixion was even invented as a means of execution. Psalm 22:16, "For dogs encompass me, a company of evil doers encircles me. They have pierced my hands and feet. I can count all my bones. They stare and gloat over me. They divided my garments among them and for my clothing, they cast lots. But you all Lord, do not be far off. Oh, you might help come quickly to my aid. Deliver my soul from the sword, my precious life from the power of the dogs." Dogs who didn't see the treasure that was before them crucifying him.

And Jesus cries out and he says, "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." They're still guilty, even if they don't know what they're doing, but forgive them. Jesus Christ was canceled by our sin, to cancel our sin. He was canceled by our guilt, to cancel our guilt. He was canceled by our condemnation, to cancel our condemnation. He was canceling the power of death to give us life.
If you're not a Christian, we today invite you to become a Christian by repenting of your sin and turning to Christ. Leave your sins and leave your self-righteousness at the cross of Christ. Receive his grace. As Christians, may you know the joy of sin forgiven by the Lord, Jesus Christ, amen.

Lord Jesus, we thank you for being a great God and a gracious God. We thank you that you never look at us and say, "You are absolutely hopeless." While we're alive, there is hope. I pray that every single person who's heard my voice, I pray that they become your adopted children. In of ourselves, we are evil and we are hypocrites and we are dogs and we are pigs, but you welcome us into your family as adopted children. Thanks be to Christ for that, in whose name we pray, amen.