We must examine how the gift of discerning spirits provides insights into our relationships. This gift helps us to know who is for us, who has wrong motives and seeks to use us, and those who have intentions to destroy us. As we increase awareness of the motives and shadows behind the person, deception is reduced so that we are not caught up in the lies of individuals or demons. More resources such as books, online classes, are available to help you grow in the Lord can be found on www.loisflewelling.com.