Find God in Lonely Times

Unlocked by Keys for Kids Ministries

Find God in Lonely Times

September 25, 2019 • Emily Acker

Allie sat in her room all alone. She tried to ignore the voices from the party downstairs.

No one had sent Allie to her room, but the room called to her. There was something inside of her tonight that made her too worn out to deal with everyone.

Her dad opened her bedroom door.
“Aren’t you going to come downstairs? Your grandpa’s asking about you.”

“I’m tired,” Allie said. “I think I’ll just stay up here.” Allie loved spending time with her grandfather. But she had so little energy tonight.

Her dad hesitated before giving a nod.
“Okay. I’ll let him know.”

When she was alone again, Allie’s eyes filled with tears. Why can’t I be like everyone else? Why can’t I enjoy the party? What’s wrong with me?

A quiet knock came at her bedroom door.
“Can I come in, Allie?” Her grandfather’s soft voice came from the hallway.

Allie found herself engulfed in her grandfather’s arms as soon as she opened the door.

“Why don’t you tell me what’s going on?” her grandfather asked.
“I don’t know what’s going on. I just feel like being alone.”
“Sometimes we push people away when we really need them around.”
“I know.” Allie sighed. “I just can’t imagine being a part of the party right now.” “I understand,” her grandfather said. “I need time to be alone sometimes too.”

He looked her in the eyes. “You’re feeling lonely?”

Allie nodded.

“Even when you’re up here all alone, you know that God’s with you, right?” Her grandfather spoke in a low voice. “Even if you don’t feel up for being with people, Jesus is right here with you.”

Allie nodded again. Slowly this time. God is with me. Please, God, be with me.

Do you ever have times when you just want to push the world away and be alone?

Do you feel God with you in those times? Why is it important to talk with Him when we feel lonely?

Obligation: Love

September 30, 2019 • Bonnie Haveman

Picture someone who has done a great favor for you. You thank them profusely and ask if there is anything you can do for them. They ask you to take care of their dog for the next month. You agree, so you feed, water, and bathe the dog, as well as take him for walks. When the month ends, you take the dog back to its owner, completing your obligation. Now imagine you have your very own dog. Now, you feed, water, bathe, and take your four-legged friend for long walks. Your attitude is completely different toward this dog—your dog—than toward the dog you simply took care of for a month. The first time, you were fulfilling an obligation, but now you are invested financially and emotionally. How do you see God? Is He an obligation or do you love Him? Do you do what He asks out of duty or simply because you love Him? In Colossians 3, the Apostle Paul gives a long, and even overwhelming, list of ways believers are supposed to be living. But, guess what? You can’t live the kind of life Paul is speaking of by fulfilling an obligation. The kind of life Paul is encouraging you to live requires a heart that is made new by Jesus Himself through a relationship with Him (Jeremiah 24:7; 2 Corinthians 5:17). God doesn’t desire a perfect, duty-driven servant. He desires a loving relationship with you. And that loving relationship spills over into your relationship with other believers, which is built on love, not obligation. Love isn’t a feeling. It’s about relationship with God and others. We love because we are loved by Jesus, and, in Him, we no longer live in fear of losing love (Romans 8:38-39; 1 John 4:18-19). So, as Christians, our only obligation is to love God and love others through Him. Through Jesus, what are ways you can love God and others? Can you engage in following God out of love—and then turn it into an obligation? Can you engage in following God out of obligation—and then turn it into an act of love?

Our Father's House

September 29, 2019 • Adam Aldridge

Twelve-year-old Jesus has been at Passover all week with His family, where they have worshiped, prayed, eaten, and sang. At the end of the week, when everybody is ready to go home, Jesus stays behind and heads to the temple In the temple, He sits among some of the greatest teachers of the time, having a conversation with them. Now, at twelve years old, Jesus has been training His whole childhood with the rest of the boys in His Jewish community by memorizing the Torah (the first five books of the Bible). Simply put, Jesus knows His Scripture. He knows what He’s talking about. And He’s listening to these teachers speak—listening so well that He asks some incredible questions. Then, when they ask questions, His answers leave them amazed. Mary and Joseph, Jesus’ parents, eventually find Him and ask, “What are you doing?” To which He replies: “Didn’t you know that I must be in my Father’s house?” (Luke 2:49). Mary and Joseph don’t understand. In fact, they are astonished, which tells us this is unusual behavior for Jesus. *His Father’s house?* This is a pivotal moment in Jesus’ life. Jesus is becoming more aware of His identity. That feels weird to say because we often only think of Jesus as the divine Son of God. He should know who He is, right? We forget He was also the human son of Mary, and this truth matters a lot. In order for Jesus to redeem you and me, He had to live a fully human life. Which means He had to be fully a twelve-year-old boy. Jesus was and is fully God and fully man and, because of that fact, His death and resurrection make it possible for us to be saved from sin and death. This is the good news! Have you ever felt like you don’t know who you are? Where do you look to form your identity? Jesus placed His identity in the truths of Scripture—God’s Word. Why is it important that God is the source of our identity? Why is it important that Jesus is fully God and fully human?

Are You Salty?

September 28, 2019 • Melissa Yeagle

Do you like potato chips? They can be so addicting! Sometimes, you start eating them, and before you know it, the whole bag is gone. There are so many flavors to choose from: dill pickle, sour cream and onion, chili cheese, and many more. The one thing most potato chips have in common is salt. Salt gives them flavor. Have you ever tried chips with reduced salt? Did you notice they had a little less flavor than normal? The Bible calls Christians “the salt of the earth” (Matthew 5:13). In other words, we are salty. While salty can mean “bitter” or “angry,” today we’re going to use a different definition. To be salty in a biblical sense means to be thoroughly seasoned with God’s love and truth. We are called to reflect God’s love in the world by loving Him and loving others. The Bible says in John 13:35 that people will know we are Christians by how we love one another. That’s how we can be the salt of the earth. Matthew 5:13 goes on to say that salt that has lost its saltiness “is no longer good for anything.” When we, as Christians, don’t show God’s love and truth to others, we are not doing our job. But, when we remember God loves us so much He sent Jesus to die for us, we naturally reflect His love, pointing others to Jesus. We don’t have to show love in big gestures; it can be in small, everyday ways. For example, you could offer to share your bag of chips with someone nearby or talk to someone who is going through a hard time. Show people Jesus. Then, watch Him work. Do you believe God loves you? How does this help you love others? How can loving someone show them who Jesus is? What are some ways you can show love to others on a daily basis?