We don’t know who she is. Mark doesn’t describe her. He doesn’t even name her. She is one of the hundreds of unnamed but important characters in the biblical narrative. You see what she is doing, right? She is saying goodbye. She seems to be the only character in all four Gospels who knows what’s coming, and how short Jesus’ life will turn out to be—three more days. She is the only one who gets it.
Sometimes words are not enough when it’s time to say goodbye, yes? You need your touch. You need your eyes to express the truth of your heart. You need the unspoken memories of a lifetime of shared experience. You need your tears. You might even need some laughter. You need the fragrance of perfume.