Anchored by Love Divorce Recovery with Charity Matheson
Divorce Recovery Ministry
"Rebounding vs. Real Healing" - Anchored by Love Divorce Support
March 2, 2017 • Charity Matheson
A common mistake of many divorced individuals is jumping into a new relationship that is too much, too soon. These relationships usually are a recipe for disaster if you have not allowed the time you need for your heart to heal properly. In this message, we talk about why people jump into rebounds. Why rebounds don't usually fill the void in our hearts following divorce, and the things we should be focusing on instead. We hope you enjoy this message brought to you by Anchored by Love Divorce Support Ministries - which is an outreach of Joshua Springs Calvary Chapel in Yucca Valley California. If you are in the healing process from a divorce or loss of a significant love relationship, and you need help, we invite you to join us at Anchored by Love, which meets the first Thursday of every month in the Chapel at Joshua Springs at 6 PM.
"Goals & Resolutions for the Divorced Christian" - Anchored by Love Divorce Support with Charity Mat
February 2, 2017 • Charity Matheson
Anchored by Love - Session 10 February 2nd, 2017 Anchored By Love Divorce Support Meeting The New Year often signifies a fresh start in our minds, so a lot of us shoot for the moon with the changes we want to make in our lives. Unfortunately a lot of us fall off track pretty early on, and give up. At this meeting we discuss some positive changes we can make this new year that are beneficial and realistic for the divorced Christian.
"Forgiveness" Anchored by Love Divorce Recovery with Charity Matheson
September 2, 2016 • Charity Matheson
Whenever a relationship falls apart, there is usually hard feelings and people in need of forgiveness. Yet, forgiving your ex can be one of the toughest things you will have to face in the whole process. How can you forgive the one that hurt you the deepest? And why is it so important to God that we offer people who have wronged us forgiveness. Join us in Session 7 of Anchored by love as we cover this difficult topic. In this session we will discuss, what forgiveness is and what forgiveness is NOT.. We will talk about the 4 steps to forgive someone who has wronged us, and ways that we can examine our own hearts to see if we need to forgive.
"Finding Joy in Your Pain & Trials" Anchored by Love Divorce Recovery With Charity Matheson
August 4, 2016 • Charity Matheson
In Session 6 of Anchored by Love, we are discussing how God can use our trials, hardships and pain to bring us closer to Him and to work out things in our hearts that will make us stronger, more mature, and more capable in life. So many of us pray that God will remove our trials, instead of embracing what the Lord might be working out in our lives through them. But no matter what trial we are facing, we can cast our anxieties on Him and know that He loves us and wants to give us peace and wisdom for every hard decision we must face in life. And lastly, He is beginning a work in us that He is going to be faithful to complete in us, if we are faithful to him, and keep our eyes on our Savior. Philippians 1:6 & 4:4-8, James 1:2-7
"Surviving the Setbacks" - Anchored by Love Divorce Recovery with Charity Matheson
July 7, 2016 • Charity Matheson
The path to healing after a loss of a marriage or significant relationship can be a rocky one. There are times where things seem okay, and there are times that we feel like our world is crashing around us. Setbacks are inevitable in life, but what do we do when we encounter them? In session 5 of Anchored by love, we talk about 3 topics vital to surviving setbacks and tips to staying on the road to recovery and peach through Jesus. Friendships and staying connected to the body of Christ, viewing people and situations realistically, and making Jesus the most important love in your life and holding on to hope are all positive steps in the healing process. Tune in to this episode as we discuss each topic in depth.
Anchored on Identity - Rediscovering Who You Are - Anchored by Love Divorce Recovery
May 12, 2016 • Charity Matheson
When a marriage has ended - the identity that the couple spent a lifetime creating together is fractured. Divorce can leave a lot of people feeling like they don't even know who they are anymore. The key to knowing your true identity is to have your worth and your hope planted firmly in Jesus Christ. In this session we explore the foundations of rooting our identity in how our Savior sees us, not in how what the world thinks gives people their value. Having an identity firmly rooted in God will give you that solid foundation you need to live a life worth living. If you are looking to anything other than God for your self worth - you are going to come up disappointed.
"Anchored on: Dating - Modern Day Ruth & Boaz" - Anchored by Love Divorce Recovery
April 7, 2016 • Charity Matheson
After divorce a lot of us find find ourselves in unfamiliar territory: The dating world! This can be intimidating to navigate, but the Bible gives us a great guideline and goal for a healthy and happy relationship in the book of Ruth. What kind of characteristics should we be looking for as we re-approach dating? And why do so many Christian women find Boaz so attractive? Scripture References: Ruth 1-4, Galatians 5:9, 1 Corinthians 15:33, I Peter 3:7
"Anchored on the Present" Anchored By Love Divorce Recovery with Charity Matheson
March 3, 2016 • Charity Matheson
A lot of us can find ourselves stuck in unhealthy patterns following divorce, where we dwell on the past or we worry about the future. The present is the only place where you have any kind of control or power over your life.. Living in the present is focusing on the blessings of each day.. In this episode we discuss "emotional triggers" that send us into tailspins in our healing, as well as things we can do to keep our focus on the here and now. Verse References in this session: Matthew 6:25-34 2 Corinthians 10:5 B 1 Peter 5:7 James 4:14 Isaiah 43:18-19 2 Corinthians 5:17 "Anchored On The Present" Anchored By Love Divorce Recovery at Joshua Springs.. Every first Thursday of the month at 6 PM in the Chapel. For more information contact: 442-227-0355 or email: http://anchoreddivorcerecovery@gmail.com For a free copy of the Discussion and Reflection questions for small groups that accompany this message, contact this ministry via email or our facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/anchoredbylovedivorcesupport
