You cannot play it safe and please God. To step toward your destiny, sometimes you have to step away from your security.
Trust the process. He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. Philippians 1:6
Daily ask God for wisdom to know his will and courage to act on it.
If you are becoming the right who, God will help you choose the right do. If you are motivated by the right why, God will lead you to the right what.