We were never created to discern our own life. True discernment does not come from the wisdom of man but from the Word of Christ. The key to being kept free from the snare of offense is by treasuring Gods word, by having an attentive ear to hear what the Spirit is saying and by being rooted and grounded in the Love and Grace of God . The Word made Flesh helps us to see How we are to navigate in a World thats full of offense. And the Wisdom displayed on the cross of Christ also keeps our heart from free from offense as we see How Christ received strength to endure the cross by seeing the Fathers Joy that was set before Him