The Qualities of Love” Part 1

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The Qualities of Love” Part 1

1 Corinthians 13:4-8

October 13, 2024 • Richard Caldwell Jr. • 1 Corinthians 13:4–8

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Introduction:

There is a quality that runs through every answer given to any problem the people of God are experiencing.

Whatever the problem is, you can be sure that what I’m about to mention is necessary to the solution.

THAT QUALITY IS LOVE.

Not just any kind of love — THE LOVE OF GOD.

And not just the love of God in name.

THIS IS ONE OF THE GREAT PROBLEMS THAT WE FACE WHEN WE TALK ABOUT LOVE.

More people talk about love than rightly understand it.

More people talk about love than consistently define it properly.

More people talk about love than REQUIRE OF THEMSELVES.

The requirement necessary to honor God in any challenge is love rightly defined, consistently chosen, and faithfully practiced.

Love that is only known in Christ.

ESV Ephesians 5:2 And walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.

Love that is poured out in a human life by the Holy Spirit.

ESV Romans 5:5 and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.

Love that we GROW in.

ESV Philippians 1:9 And it is my prayer that your love may abound more and more, with knowledge and all discernment,

Love that is the fruit of God’s own work in a soul.

ESV Galatians 5:22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,

And so, for the next two Sunday evenings, I want us to focus on THE PRACTICE OF LOVE.

Overview:

The context for our verses is a large section that deals with the subject of love. The larger section deals with:

*The priority of love (vs.1-3)

*The permanence of love (vs.8b-13)

Sandwiched between the two – Paul describes THE PRACTICE OF LOVE

What is interesting is that his description of its practice serves to DEFINE IT.

When you take note of what it does, and you take note of what it does not do — if you will be honest with yourself — you come away with a convicting sense of its supernatural nature.

*Love is powerful

*Love brings change

*Love is a great testimony to the reality of the living God

IT IS SUPERNATURAL. IT IS ONLY POSSIBLE BECAUSE OF SALVATION.

The goal of this section is not just INFORMATION, or EXAMINATION. The goal of this section is TRANSFORMATION.

Paul describes 16 Qualities that you find in God’s love:

1. Love is patient

2. Love is kind

3. Love is not jealous

4. Love does not brag

5. Love is not arrogant

6. Love is not rude

7. Love does not insist on its own way

8. Love is not irritable

9. Love is not resentful

10. Love does not rejoice in wrongdoing

11. Love rejoices with the truth

12. Love bears all things

13. Love believes all things

14. Love hopes all things

15. Love endures all things

16. Love never ends

Thanksgiving & Certain Triumph

November 24, 2024 • Richard Caldwell Jr. • Psalm 9

Introduction: When we think about all the ways that God has blessed us IN THIS TEMPORAL AGE, our reasons for Thanksgiving are overwhelming. OUR GOD HAS BEEN GOOD TO US! Every believer, even those who experienced horrific things in life, has reason for GREAT PRAISE, because God has forgiven us and made us His children through faith in Jesus Christ. But our reasons for Thanksgiving are not LIMITED to the present age. And when we keep the transcendent reasons for Thanksgiving in our minds, it increases our Thanksgiving IN THE PRESENT AGE. Our reasons for Thanksgiving reach beyond this momentary existence. They reach beyond what the eye can see. Today I want us to remember a transcendent reason for Thanksgiving. A reason for Thanksgiving that is above all that takes place in the present age, constantly controls the present age (though in a way lost men don’t recognize), but in a future age will be acknowledged by all. Today we give thanks THAT OUR GOD IS KING. He is King over His world. He is King over all the Kingdoms of this world. He is King over all the circumstances that we face in this world. He is King over the great ones of the earth. He is King over the small ones of the earth. HE IS KING OVER ALL. HE IS KING EVEN IN OUR SORROWS. The world is full of many troubles. The very next Psalm, which has a close relationship to this one — is a Psalm of lament. Psalm 10 acknowledges the difficulties of life in a fallen world. We encounter many true dangers, we sometimes have true enemies, we sometimes encounter powerful fear and anxiety in our hearts, and yet we can know THAT BECAUSE OUR GOD ALWAYS TRIUMPHS HIS PEOPLE ALWAYS TRIUMPH. NAS 2 Corinthians 2:14 But thanks be to God, who always leads us in His triumph in Christ, and manifests through us the sweet aroma of the knowledge of Him in every place. NAS Romans 8:35 Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? 36 Just as it is written, "For Thy sake we are being put to death all day long; We were considered as sheep to be slaughtered." 37 But in all these things we overwhelmingly conquer through Him who loved us. And it is THAT knowledge — the knowledge of the rule and authority of our God that guarantees our ultimate triumph in Christ — that allows us to be thankful in any and every circumstance. ESV Philippians 4:5 Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand; 6 do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. Today we think about THE BELIEVER’S THANKSGIVING INFORMED BY THE CERTAINTY OF VICTORY. This Psalm divides into two main sections. Verses 1-12, thanksgiving’s vision in the form of proclamation. Verses 13-20, thanksgiving’s vision in the form of prayer. I. THANKSGIVING’S VISION IN THE FORM OF PROCLAMATION (vs.1-12) This is a Psalm of David. This is a Psalm of praise. And the kind of praise that we find in this Psalm is the kind of praise that would be on the lips of A GODLY KING. Much of what he says would seem to have no direct connection with anything we’re facing today. And yet, his praise relates to more than his own circumstances. His praise relates to more than his own life. And so, it should be with us.

Love’s Rejoicing

November 17, 2024 • Richard Caldwell Jr. • 1 Corinthians 13:5

Introduction: Lost man is incurably moralistic. Even when men are immoral, they promote their immorality in the name of morality. Using just one example. When we think about the sexual revolution that our nation has seen over the past few decades —recognize that it has been done in the NAME OF MORALITY. “It is RIGHT,” they would say, “to celebrate sexual diversity, and if anyone disagrees, IT IS BECAUSE THEY ARE A BIGOT.” In fact, they are driven by irrational fear. Homophobia. Transphobia. This places the acceptance of all the various sexual sins in the category of virtue. Those who accept such things are more enlightened, more advanced, more educated, more reasonable, or just better people. It places the rightful hatred of these behaviors in the category of bigotry. THOSE WHO ACTUALLY OPPOSE GOD ARE NOW CLAIMED TO BE ON GOD’S SIDE. THOSE WHO ACTUALLY SIDE WITH GOD’S WORD ARE NOW CLAIMED TO BE AGAINST GOD. BUT IT ISN’T JUST A GENERAL MORALITY THAT IS CLAIMED FOR THESE CHOICES — IT IS THE SPECIFIC CLAIM OF LOVE. According to the moral climate of the age: To say that a person’s sexual orientation is sinful or abnormal is UNLOVING. To say that people of the same sex shouldn’t be able to marry is UNLOVING. To refuse to treat such behaviors as normal and acceptable — in the realm of a family, for example — is said to be UNLOVING. This is a tremendous crisis in our time. IT DEMONSTRATES HOW THE MEANING OF LOVE, THE MEASURE OF LOVE, AND THE IDENTIFICATION OF WHAT IS LOVELY — HAS BEEN DISTORTED. The quality of love that we consider tonight IS A GREAT REMEDY if we are willing to listen. What we see here challenges common lies and deceptions that exist in the MORAL REALM, the RELATIONAL REALM, the DOCTRINAL REALM, and the REALM OF MINISTRY. What do we see here? We will consider these two statements under THREE headings. I. LOVE’S DISCERNMENT These two statements are to be taken together. Each statement is true on its own, but when taken together we see the fulness of what is being described. What is being described is that fact that LOVE MAKES A CHOICE. Love does not exist in the gray zone of neutrality. LOVE IS NOT ACCEPTING OF EVERYTHING. On one side of the ledger, we are told what is incompatible with love. What love DOES NOT ACCORD WITH what it CANNOT COOPERATE WITH, and what it will not REJOICE IN. On the other side of the ledger, we are told what LOVE AGREES WITH — what it TAKES JOY IN. This means that LOVE MAKES DISTINCTIONS. And it makes distinctions that require discernment. A. LOVE RECOGNIZES UNRIGHTEOUSNESS For true love, godly love, there is such a thing as sin. THE WORD HERE SPEAKS OF INJUSTICE, INIQUITY, WRONGDOING, EVIL, AND UNRIGHTEOUSNESS. That is, anything that is contrary to the will of God in belief or practice. Anything contrary to God’s will, anything that would grieve the Holy Spirit, anything contrary to the Scriptures, is unrighteousness. 1. UNRIGHTEOUSNESS IN THE REALM OF PHILOSOPHY The general way that men process the world. The realm of ideas, opinions, ambitions, standards, values, pleasures, theories, morals, etc. WHAT CHARACTERIZES SIN IN THIS REALM IS THAT IT IS A TRUTH SUPRESSOR. What is true, according to Scripture, is exchanged for lies. What would make God truly known is substituted for with lies about God.

Love Is Not Resentful

November 10, 2024 • Richard Caldwell Jr. • 1 Corinthians 13:5

Introduction: We never leave the gospel behind. Our life in Christ began with faith in the gospel, but our spiritual growth continues to be reliant on faith in the gospel. Sanctification is not moving BEYOND the gospel. Sanctification is living OUT OF THE DEPTHS of the gospel. Progressive sanctification is about know the heights and the depths and the lengths and the breadths of the love of God in Christ Jesus. ESV Ephesians 3:14 For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, 15 from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, 16 that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being, 17 so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith-- that you, being rooted and grounded in love, 18 may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, 19 and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. What is love? 1. It is patient. 2. It is kind. 3. It does not envy 4. It does not boast 5. It is not arrogant 6. It is not rude 7. It does not insist on its own way (it is not selfish) 8. It is not irritable Tonight, we see that LOVE IS NOT RESENTFUL. I. THE MEANING OF RESENTMENT It is literally, “does not take account of evil.” He uses logizomai (which means to account something, to reckon something) and kakos (which means evil). The NASB has “does not take into account a wrong suffered.” The NIV rendered it, “it keeps no record of wrongs.” Gordon Fee, commenting on this, said: “Since in Paul this verb often means ‘to put to one’s account’, it seems probable that the nuance suggested by the NIV moves in the right direction.” The idea, then, is that when we are walking in the love of God, in the love taught by the Spirit of God, in the love of Jesus Christ, we will not be a people who take account of the wrongs done to us. Several things we need to consider here. A. WE ARE TALKING ABOUT WRONGS We are talking about REAL EVIL. We are talking about things done to us that REALLY ARE WRONG. It would be one thing if what we were being taught is that we should let go of, forgive, IMAGINED WRONGS — if he was teaching that the love of God doesn’t carry a chip around on its shoulder over insignificant things. AND WE KNOW THAT WE CAN DO THAT. People carry around hurt feelings, grudges, that don’t even represent REALITY. There are people who are DECEIVED about their mistreatment. IN FACT, PEOPLE CAN BE SO DECEIVED ABOUT INJURIES THAT THE VICTIMIZER FEELS LIKE THE VICTIM. The one who feels like they have been wronged is IN THE WRONG. Example: There have been people fired from their job, who will tell everyone what a bad employer they had, when in truth they were a bad employee who deserved to be fired. I have personally known people who left their families, left their wife or husband, walked away from their children, and had built up in their mind that they WERE JUSTIFIED because somehow, they had been mistreated. But this verse isn’t calling us to simply clear the record of IMAGINARY HURTS. This verse tells us that the love of God doesn’t keep a record even when we have suffered REAL WRONGS. You really ARE mistreated. You really DO suffer wrong. You really ARE the victim of mistreatment. B. WE ARE TALKING ABOUT NO RECORDS He is telling us that where love is operating there is no record keeping of these real wrongs. Question: Are you a record keeper? Do you hold onto hurts? Do you hold grudges? Are you someone who says, “I can forgive, but I can’t forget” … which is just another way of saying, “I refuse to clear my record against you.”?