The Story of Love

Forest Park Church

The Story of Love

January 8, 2023 • Jason Corder

For a word that we use so often, love is a very difficult word for us to define. I looked up love in the dictionary on my shelf, and found that it is both a noun and a verb. It has eleven different definitions. Love has to do with God. It has to do with physical affection. It has to do with romance. It even has to do with tennis. Thats a pretty wide range of definitions to sort through.

So when the Bible says we are to love one another it sounds good, but what does that really mean anyway? People can be so irritating. Somebody once wrote a little limerick that’s hard to forget; "To live above with those we love, oh, how that will be glory. To live below with those we know, now that's another story. Even our immediate families and church families can be difficult to love. Sometimes we sing a chorus in church: "I'm so glad you're a part of the family of God," and then we look at the person beside us and think, "I'm surprised you're part of the family of God."

In English we have only one word for love. I think that unfortunate. The ancient Hebrews had the same dilemma. 'Ahab was the ancient Hebrew word, and all different shades of love had to be captured in that single term. The Greeks had far more. But no matter the number of words you have for it one thing remains the same. Love is work, love is sacrifice, love changes things, and God calls us to Love others and he loves us!

Gentleness & Self-Control

February 5, 2023

D. L. Moody, the famous evangelist of the 19th century, was once asked, “Of all the people you have come in contact with, who would you say has given you the most trouble?” He said, “That’s easy, D. L. Moody.” We smile because we understand all too clearly that the one who consistently gives each of us the most trouble, the one we have to clean up after the most, and the one we have to correct the most is none other than ourselves. Someone once said, “If you could kick the person responsible for most of your troubles, you probably wouldn’t be able to sit down for weeks.” We all have a hard time saying “NO.” Have you ever lost control of yourself and been embarrassed or frustrated by your behavior? Maybe you overate - or spent too much - or said too much - or played too much - or bragged too much - or procrastinated too much - or interfered too much - or worked too much - or complained too much, or argued too much? Can you think of a time or two or three in your life when you lost your grip on the reigns of self? I’ll bet you can because we all have! Each of us has had to endure times of difficulty, frustration, and defeat, and we realized later that we had no one to blame but ourselves. This Sunday, as we conclude the "All Things New" series, we will consider the remaining two items on the list, gentleness and self-control, which tie all the others together.

Goodness & Faithfulness

January 29, 2023

A linguistics professor explained to a group of students the development of the English language, which finds its roots in old English. It looks very different from modern English as it is essentially the result of Germanic tribes (Angles and Saxons) moving to or invading parts of England and combining their language with the native tongue of the Britons, which itself is a combination of Celtic and Latin. All of that was pretty boring until he launched into the connection between our word for God and the word “good.” At this point, my ears perked up! I guess it’s not a problematic connection, as they are separated by a single letter, but I never knew if that was an accidental similarity or something more significant. When these Germanic people began to worship the God of the Bible, they needed a word to describe him. They had proper names for their pantheon of Germanic gods, as in Odin, Thor, and Freya, but they didn’t have a word that would ultimately work as a way of describing the God of the Old and New Testaments. However, as these people began to learn about the God of scripture, his inherent goodness, and his faithfulness to his creation they decided to take a form of the word “good” and make it their word for God. The words are recognizable in both the early Germanic languages and the modern languages of German, Dutch, and English from which they came. Isn't it amazing that when a group of people came to believe in the God of the Bible, the word that made the most sense for them to use was the word “good?” We have a good and faithful Father who has called us to exhibit the same characteristics in our lives; they are indicators or fruits that His spirit is working within us.

Patience & Kindness

January 22, 2023

Patience and kindness are not easy disciplines. Just try waiting until something happens over which you have no control, or the bus shows up at the end of the rain storm, maybe a meaningful conversation with a spouse or child, or the resolution of a conflict. Patience and kindness are not just waiting passivity until someone else does something; they force us to live each moment to the fullest, to be completely present in a situation and to taste the here and now of where we are. You might describe these attributes as love for the long haul; bearing up under difficult circumstances, without giving up or giving in to anger, frustration, or bitterness. These fruits of the spirit force us to work when gratification is delayed. It means taking what life offers, even if that offering is suffering, without lashing out or quitting. Patience and kindness are basic elements of Christianity! The power to wait, to persevere, to hold out, to endure to the end, recognizing one’s own limitations, not to force issues by playing the hero or the problem solver, but to practice the virtues that defined Jesus ministry, the meekness of the Lamb. In many ways patience and kindness serve as a protection against temptations and wrongs as clothes do against cold. If you put on more clothes as the cold increases you will have the power to endure it because you have insulated yourself from it’s dangerous effects. As we grow in the fruit of a spirit-led life, we meet with great wrongs and challenges shielded by a spiritual protection tried and demonstrated by our Lord to work in powerful ways.