4PB 2024 - Fellowship Church

Sacrifice

October 13, 2024 • Byron Beck

Byron Beck | October 13, 2024 | Fellowship Church | Poplar Bluff, MO

Share Your Story

October 6, 2024 • Cody Morgeson

Cody Morgeson | October 6, 2024 | Fellowship Church | Poplar Bluff, MO

Kindness 101

September 29, 2024 • Byron Beck

Discussion Questions: What category of people are the most difficult for you to love? Are there any people in your life who have so deeply hurt or offended you that you struggle to love them? Describe your relationship with hospitality. If Byron is correct and among the many possible expressions of hospitality, its most basic version involves “loving strangers” — what are some of the “most needy strangers” in your circle of influence? Borrowing from Byron’s examples of “ways to love strangers” — how are you doing with: •“Smiling” — is this natural or unnatural for you? •“Courtesy” — is it easy for you to be “mannerly” toward others? Can you let others go before you? •“Contributing” — are you generous toward the needs of others? In Hebrews 13:3 we are encouraged to “lean in” to the needs and lives of strangers around us: •Heb 13:3 — Remember those in prison, as if you were there yourself. Remember also those mistreated, as if you felt their pain in your own bodies. •Think bout the last time your were sympathetic toward the needs of others and could actually imagine yourself in their shoes.

The Seeing Servant

September 22, 2024 • Sloan Parker

1. Re-examining Our Boundaries -Who are the "Samaritans" in your life—those whom you may find difficult to love or accept? How might Jesus be calling you to view and treat them differently? -Are there people or groups that we, either personally or as a church, tend to overlook or exclude when we think about who our neighbor is? 2. Seeing and Responding to Need -The Samaritan noticed the injured man and stopped to help. Are there "injured" people in your life or community that you might be missing? What stops you from seeing or acting on their need? -What does it mean for you to show compassion in your daily life? What might this look like in practical terms at work, school, or home? 3. Radical Love and Surprising Partnerships -The Samaritan and the innkeeper had to trust each other despite their differences. Are there ways you can partner with people or organizations outside of your comfort zone to show love and meet the needs of others? -How can we cultivate an openness to surprising partnerships and relationships in our lives and in the church that reflect the inclusiveness of God’s kingdom? 4. Breaking Down Prejudice and Division -Reflect on a time when you experienced prejudice or bias toward someone else, or when someone else acted this way toward you. How does the parable challenge us to confront these attitudes within ourselves and our communities? -How can we, as a church, become more intentional about breaking down barriers of race, class, political affiliation, or religion in how we care for and serve our neighbors? 5. Living the Kingdom Now -The parable suggests that moments of radical love and mercy reflect the kingdom of God. Where have you seen the kingdom breaking into the present through acts of love and compassion, either in your life or in the world around you? -What are some practical ways that you can bring the values of the kingdom into your daily life, starting this week? How can we as a small group or a church embody these values more fully? 6. Neighborly Love and Eternal Life -The lawyer’s question was about inheriting eternal life, and Jesus responded with a story about practical, everyday love. How does this parable shift your understanding of what it means to live a life that reflects God's kingdom? -How might Jesus be inviting you into a deeper experience of eternal life by calling you to love your neighbor in unexpected and challenging ways?

Unprovoked Love

September 15, 2024 • Byron Beck

Discussion Questions: How often do you do an “act of service for God” and hope that someone recognizes your act and pats you on the back? Have you ever served God out of guilt (hoping this would make up for your foolish sins)? •How often do you serve God with improper/un-Biblical motives? The goal of this message is to remind us how much we need God’s agape’ love as the motivational force in all of our ministry. •Can you think of (describe) an example when you served God from the vantage point of no self-seeking motives? Byron highlights how perceptions of “superiority” and/or “inferiority” can block our desire to serve some people. We need agape’ love from God to overcome our pride and/or low self-esteem. •Can you think of examples from your life when these bad attitudes hampered you in your service of Jesus? Read and meditate on 1 John 4:7-11. Is your heart alive with God’s love?

Servants

September 8, 2024 • Byron Beck

Discussion Questions: When Byron shared the Gallup research about American church members and their service, which stat was most surprising to you? •10% of American church members are active in any church ministry. •50% of American church members have no interest in serving. •40% of American church members are interested in serving, but have never been asked or don’t know how. •Into which category do you fit? The same with Rick Warren’s concentric circles. Which does best to describe you? •community, crowd, congregation, committed, core, commissioned Using the illustration about the woman in New York city, Byron discussed that sometimes we don’t help people because our lives are too cluttered. We are too busy to add additional service projects to our lives. Our lives are “not interruptible.” •How much is this a problem for you? Take some time to consider Byron’s illustration about the early Christian church, and their reaction to the three plagues of the Roman empire. •Do you think you would have stayed and served your sick family and friends?

The Church

September 1, 2024 • Byron Beck

Byron Beck | September 1, 2024 | Fellowship Church | Poplar Bluff, MO