The hour of the crucifixion brings with it the single greatest example of empathy and restorative connection to other humans. Jesus’ response, “Father, forgive them for they know not what they do…”, assures us that the work required for healthy relationships with each other is of critical importance as those living into God’s mission for redeeming the world back to Him. It’s not a way for us to participate with God, it’s the way that we are wired for participating with Him. In this final lesson of the Wired for Connection series we’ll be reminded of our charge as Christ’s body as we learn how Jesus “saw beneath” in the lives of those around Him in His darkest hour. We’ll join Him in the truth of His resurrection, as we’re invited to consider if forgiveness and reconciliation is even possible without empathy?
Lesson 6 | Who are We? | See Beneath
See as Jesus Sees
February 16, 2020 • Melissa Frye
Lesson 1 | Who is God | See the Invitation
January 12, 2020 • Melissa Frye
We all have an image of God that we’ve developed, likely even subconsciously, from the experiences and relationships that have shaped us most over time. For some, the walk of the Christian faith may be an all-out attempt to not make any mistakes for fear of disappointing an exasperated or fed-up God. Others may see God as moody or judgmental and domineering — just waiting to deal out strike three and break any potential for reconciliation with Him that may take place. These distorted images of God hinder our spiritual walk and perpetuate a sense of shame that seems inescapable. How would your faith change if your perspective shifted and you learned that God isn’t distant, puppeteering, or judgmental — but rather is relational? God delights in our relationship with Him and invites us to draw close and follow. He invites us to a seat at the table and reminds us that we are His beloved.
Lesson 2 | Who is God | See the Invitation
January 19, 2020 • Melissa Frye
From the very first moments in time and pages in scripture, God was creating us for relationships; creating us in His image. As humans “made in the very image of God”, our relationship with God and with other people is an essential element of our healthy design. Healthy relationships with other humans offer us a window into the self-sacrificing love of Father, Son, and Spirit. It was true for Adam, true for Jesus, and is true for us. Come and see the invitation to live into your design as an image bearer of God!
Lesson 3 | Who Am I? | See the Design
January 26, 2020 • Melissa Frye
What has shaped your understanding of who you are? When you reflect on the habits and personality quirks that have become identity markers for you, do you see the character of a parent, grandparent, teacher, or friend within your own actions? When you fail, are you gracious and hospitable to your own mistakes — or is your mind full of repeating messages that convince you that you’re needy, unlovable, loud, untrustworthy…? When we hold distorted images of our own identity, we miss out on God’s invitation to be a beloved child sharing His presence with others around us. No matter how you feel about your internal tapes, awareness of how you’ve formed your own ideas of self-identity is a necessary step in true connectedness to other people.