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Bible Study Notes | CH. 10

Atomic Habits by James Clear

March 24, 2021 • Pastor Arthur Jackson III

ATOMIC HABITS
JAMES CLEAR
CHAPTER 10
HOW TO FIND AND FIX THE CAUSES OF
YOUR BAD HABITS

It’s important to understand before we delve into the issue of fixing the causes of habits, that every behavior has a surface level craving and a deeper, underlying motive.

Some of our underlying motives include:

 Conserve energy
 Obtain food and water
 Find love and reproduce
 Connect and bond with others
 Win social acceptance and approval
 Reduce uncertainty
 Achieve status and prestige

 A CRAVING IS JUST A SPECIFIC MANIFESTATION OF A DEEPER UNDERLYING MOTIVE

If you were to examine ANY ACTION that is habit forming what you’ll see is that it does not create a new motivation, but rather it latches onto an underlying motive of human nature.

• The underlying motives behind human behavior remains the same, however the specific habits we perform in relationship to those motives differ based on the period of history we live in.

One of the key things that we must understand about habits is that HABITS ARE ABOUT ASSOCIATIONS. And our associations determine whether or not we determine a habit to be worth repeating or not. Our brain is continually absorbing information and noticing cues in the environment. Every time we perceive a cue, our brain automatically runs a simulation and makes a PREDICTION about what to do in the next moment. This is how it works:

 We see a cue
 Categorize it based on past experience
 Determine the appropriate response

This all happens in an instant, but plays a crucial role in our habits because EVERY ACTION IS PRECEDED BY A PREDICTION. Life feels reactive, but it is actually predictive.

 Our Behavior Is Heavily Dependent On How We Interpret The Events That Happen To Us

 How I interpret how this conversation will end up plays a role on whether or not I answer the call.

 How I interpret how this night will end up plays a role in whether or not I accept the invitation.

 How I interpret how my body will react determines whether or not I have this drink or inhale this substance.

 How I interpret what your motives are plays a role in whether or not I accept your friend request.

Our feelings and emotions tell us whether to hold steady in our current state or to make a change. They help us decide the best course of action. However, when emotions and feelings are impaired, we actually lose the ability to make decisions. We have no signal of what to pursue and what to avoid.

Habits are attractive when we associate them with positive feelings, and we can use this insight to our advantage rather than to our detriment.

HOW TO REPROGRAM THE BRAIN TO ENJOY HARD HABITS

 HARD HABITS CAN BE ATTRACTIVE IF YOU CAN LEARN TO ASSOCIATE THEM WITH POSITIVE EXPERIENCES

 Seeing activities as OPPORTUNITIES rather than seeing them as BURDENS

• Learning to say “I GET to” as opposed to “I HAVE to”

By changing ONE word you shift the way you view each event. You transition from seeing these actions as burdens to seeing them as opportunities.

The key point is that both versions of reality are true. You HAVE to do those things…and you also GET to do those things. YOU CAN FIND EVIDENCE FOR WHICHEVER MINDSET YOU CHOOSE TO HAVE. However, by changing that one word, the narrative changes and creates a since of liberation through the action.

Reframing your habits to highlight their benefits rather than their drawbacks is a fast and easy way to reprogram your mind and make a habit seem more attractive.

 Ex. The Man In The Wheelchair

The key to finding and fixing the causes of your bad habits is to reframe the associations you have about them. It’s not easy, but if you can reprogram your predictions, you can transform a hard habit into an attractive one.