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And Forgive Us Our Debts, As We Forgive Our Debtors

A Journey Into Powerful Prayer

July 21, 2021 • Pastor Arthur Jackson III

A JOURNEY INTO POWERFUL PRAYER
“FORGIVING THOSE WHO HURT YOU”
Matt.6:12
”…And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.”

All of us have been deeply hurt by another person. How do we deal with that hurt? Jesus tells us in the Model Prayer. If we miss this petition in the Model Prayer, everything else we learn about prayer in this "journey" is simply a waste of time. Jesus tells us that we should pray, “Forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.”

 Our text uses the word “debts” to refer to our sin. This is one of five words used in the New Testament for sin. Allow me to share those words and a few places where each can be found with you this evening.

1. Romans 3:23; Luke 15:21 — This particular word is used several times in the New Testament and carries the meaning of “Missing the mark.” It is an archery term and is used to refer to an archer shooting an arrow that falls far short of the target. It refers to the fact that in our sins, we all miss the standard of God's perfect righteousness.

2. Eph. 2:1; Col. 3:13 — This word is often translated “offenses” or “trespass” in the New Testament. It carries the idea of “slipping or falling.” It refers to sins that result from carelessness instead of intentional disobedience.

3. James 2:9 — This word is usually translated as “transgression.” It refers to "an intentional crossing of the boundaries established by God in His Word.” This is a far more conscious sin than either of the other two.

4. 1 John 3:4; Matt. 7:23 — This word is usually translated either by “iniquity” or by “transgression.” It literally means “without the Law or lawlessness.” It refers to high handed sin that is committed without regard to what God has to say about the matter. It is direct and open rebellion to against God, His ways and His Word.

5. Matt. 6:12 — This words is translated “debt, debtor or ought.” It refers to something that is “owed to another party.” Here, Jesus says that our sin is like a debt owed to God and to our fellow man.

After becoming Christians, WE STILL SIN and therefore need DAILY forgiveness so our fellowship with our heavenly Father may continue. However, we must be willing to forgive others if our sins are to be forgiven. To learn to forgive those who hurt us, we must answer three questions.

WHY SHOULD I FORGIVE?

There are at least four reasons I should forgive others...

1. FORGIVENESS ALLOWS GOD TO FORGIVE MY SIN - God requires us to forgive others because He has forgiven us (Col. 3:13). It is such a serious matter not to forgive those who hurt us that Jesus' comment on this subject is the only footnote to the Model Prayer. He says if we forgive those who hurt us or sin against us, (then) our heavenly Father will also forgive us

GOD IS ONLY WILLING TO FORGIVE US IF WE FORGIVE OTHERS. We cannot get from God what we refuse to give to others. For example, Jesus says, Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy (Matt. 5:7). If I don't show mercy and forgiveness to others, God will not be merciful and forgiving to me.


2. FORGIVENESS REVEALS MY FAITH IN GOD AND HIS WORD - If we really have faith in God and His Word, we will forgive because of that promise. An unforgiving spirit is clear evidence you don't trust God or His Word.

 Romans 12:19-21 (NKJV)
Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, "Vengeance is Mine, I will repay," says the Lord. Therefore "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; If he is thirsty, give him a drink; For in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head." Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.


3. FORGIVENESS CLOSES THE DOOR TO OTHER SINS. When we refuse to forgive and thus hold a grudge, we open the door to all kinds of other sins, such as bitterness, resentment, jealousy, gossip, and hate.

 Ephesians 4:31-32 - Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave you.

Bitterness is the direct result of refusing to forgive. When we refuse to forgive, bitterness takes root in our hearts and produces its evil fruit. All those terrible things listed after bitterness are the result of bitterness. The only way to close the door on these sins is to forgive.

4. Forgiveness makes me more like God. God is the God of mercy and forgiveness. To reveal His glory to Moses, the Lord passes in front of him proclaiming Himself to be the... Lord God, merciful and gracious, longsuffering, and abundant in goodness and truth, Keeping mercy for thousands, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin (Ex. 34:6-7a). When we forgive, we are doing something that originates in heaven. God is never more proud of us than when we are willing to forget a hurt because that's when we are most like Him. God is clear about His requirement for our forgiving others

HOW DOES GOD FORGIVE?

1. God forgives completely. God promises: If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). What does the word all include in that verse? All our sins! One of the greatest promises in the Bible is what God says in the last sentence of Jeremiah 31:34.

 Jeremiah 31:34 (NKJV)
34 No more shall every man teach his neighbor, and every man his brother, saying, 'Know the LORD,' for they all shall know Me, from the least of them to the greatest of them, says the LORD. For I will forgive their iniquity, and their sin I will remember no more."

After we confess a sin to God, He will never say, "Remember that sin you committed, that bad thing you did?" God never brings it up again, and that's the way we should be. If we forgive as God does, we do not bring up that sin or hurt anymore. We don't tell other people about it, so they can know what victims we are and how someone else has hurt us. However, do you know who will bring it up? The Evil One! He will always try to get his foot in the door to keep your bitterness burning by reminding you of those who have hurt you. Then, he can lead you into all kinds of other sins. However, if we forgive as God has forgiven us, we will forgive completely and never bring it up again.

2. God forgives freely. It doesn't seem fair to be guilty of sin and then to be freely forgiven. It seems like we should have to do something to pay for the bad things we have done. However, what does Romans 3:24 tell us?

 Romans 3:24 (NKJV) - being justified freely by His grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus,

Our forgiveness is free but it is not cheap; it cost God His only Son. God sent His Son to die on the cross so not only could we be forgiven, but also so we could forgive those who hurt us and not be guilty of the sins of bitterness, resentment, gossip, etc.

If I forgive as God does, I must forgive completely and freely.

HOW CAN I FORGIVE THOSE WHO HURT ME?

Not only does God command us to forgive and tell us the consequence for refusing to forgive; He also gives us wonderful examples of how to forgive. One example is the story of Joseph in the book of Genesis. All through his life, Joseph was willing to forgive those who hurt him. He forgives Potiphar's wife for lying and accusing him of trying to rape her and forgives Potiphar for having him put in prison for several years. He forgives Pharaoh's chief butler for forgetting him and leaving him in prison for two years. He forgives his brothers for selling him into slavery.

Joseph was willing to forgive and forget. Did he forget the events? Did he forget the pit or the prison? The lies and suffering? No! Joseph chose to forget the pain associated with those events. Joseph knew the past was done and nothing could change it. Joseph also knew God has a purpose for our pain, hurts, and sufferings. Joseph says something to his brothers near the end of his forgiveness-filled life that reveals how we can forgive those who hurt us. What is it?

 GENESIS 50:19-21 (NKJV)
Joseph said to them, "Do not be afraid, for am I in the place of God? But as for you, you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good, in order to bring it about as it is this day, to save many people alive. Now therefore, do not be afraid; I will provide for you and your little ones." And he comforted them and spoke kindly to them.

Joseph could forgive because he knew God has a good reason for every hurt and a purpose for every pain He allows. We need to learn that sometimes God allows us to be hurt because He has a plan for our pain