“THE POWER OF PATIENCE”
“I waited patiently for the LORD; And He inclined to me, and heard my cry.” — Psalm 40:1, NKJV
I believe I’m on safe ground tonight when I say, in today’s society, a quality that many people are struggling with is patience.
Some people say, “patience is a virtue.” While this saying is true, the phrase itself does not come from the Bible. It comes from a poem called “PIERS PLOWMAN,” written by the poet WILLIAM LANGLAND in the fifth century AD. However, the colloquialism is in line with what the Word of God does say about it. The Apostle Paul wrote, “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, PATIENCE, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.”
(Galatians 5:22-23)
▪ Patience Comes Packaged In The Fruit Of The Spirit
🡺 Other words used in various translations that also mean patience include
FORBEARANCE and LONGSUFFERING.
The Fruit of the Spirit are virtues, behaviors, and characteristics that GROW in believers and serve as EVIDENCE of the presence and work of the Holy Spirit.
■ Speaking in the heavenly language of “tongues” is not the only evidence of the
Holy Spirit.
Patience is not only one of the first listed fruit of the Spirit, but it also facilitates some of the others. It is easier to be gentle with others when one is full of patience. Self-control can also be related to patience, as an abundance of patience can help someone not overreact to others or to annoying situations.
In my conjecture, what makes the virtue of patience so difficult to acquire and maintain is the “right now” accessibility of our culture.
♦ WE LIVE IN AN ON-DEMAND CULTURE.
Unfortunately, when we have everything “now” and “on demand,” we quickly start to believe that everything must be that way. BUT LIFE ISN’T LIKE THAT! It is one of the reasons why we see so much disharmony on social media. It is why we see so many incidences of road rage and anger between people for the smallest slight. And, it is why you can see people “going off” on other people at the slightest hint of a delay—about anything! That said, the power of patience is essential.
In a 2007 study, two professors found that people who valued patience experienced less DEPRESSION and had more socially positive emotions. For instance, qualities such as compassion, kindness, and consideration are all hallmarks of patience. Also, researchers have found that the power of patience also affords those who practice it more happiness. In short, patience makes us better people.
IS PATIENCE THE SAME AS PASSIVITY?
⇒ “Patience is not passive waiting. Patience is active acceptance of the process required to attain your goals and dreams” ~ Ray A. Davis
PASSIVE VERSUS PATIENT
Waiting is something that we’ve all had to do; however, there’s an important difference between passively waiting and patiently waiting.
♦ Being passive means being inactive, and being inactive means that you’ve given up control.
♦ Being patient means waiting with calmness, which can be inactive, but it doesn’t have to be. Control hasn’t been ceded; patience allows for productive activity while waiting.
To illustrate my point, think of a passive farmer and a patient farmer.
BEING PASSIVE
The passive farmer would plant his seed and then do nothing. If it rains enough and if the ground has enough nutrients, then he will have a successful crop, and his passivity will have paid off. If it doesn’t rain enough or the ground doesn’t have the right nutrients, then he will have a poor crop. Either way, it’s not up to him.
BEING PATIENT
The patient farmer would plant his seeds and then calmly wait. He will, however, remain active. He will monitor rainfall and the nutrients in the ground, and if needed, he will irrigate and fertilize.
🡺 There is, of course, a limit to how much a farmer can do to assist his crops, but the patient farmer’s chances of success are greater than those of the passive farmer. He has more control.
If you are passive, then you must deal with what is dealt to you. If you’re patient, then you will have some control over the outcome.
In Psalm 40, David is not passively waiting; he is patiently waiting.
What did he do?
I. HE RESOLVED TO PRAY
“I waited patiently for the Lord; he inclined to me and heard my cry” v.1
⇒ CEV – “I patiently waited, Lord for you to hear my prayer…”
PRAYER HAS THE POWER TO TRANSFORM OUR LIVES
⇒ In 1 John 5:14, the scriptures tell us: “And this is the boldness we have in Him, that if we ask anything according to His will, he hears us.”
There is immense power in daily prayer. Jesus tells us that with the power of the Holy Spirit, we can do great things as He did.
II. HE RELEASED A PRAISE
“He has put a new song in my mouth—Praise to our god; many will see it and fear and will trust in the Lord.”
Faith moves God, and praising Him is an expression of our faith in Him. Praise releases His power to work on our behalf. We must remember that God is not moved when we cry to Him in unbelief! He knows exactly where we are and what He has promised us. Therefore, when we release our praise, we steer our attention away from our problems and back onto His greatness.
▪ As you praise the Lord, things begin to happen in the unseen (spiritual) realm. In the Old Testament, the people of God didn’t have the name of Jesus as a weapon…they had praise. [2 Chron.20:22-26]
III. HE REFLECTED ON THE PAST
“Many, O Lord my God are your wonderful works which you have done; and your thoughts toward us cannot be recounted to you in order; If I would declare and speak of them, they are more than can be numbered.”
⇒ The secret of a better and more successful life is to cast out those old, dead, unhealthy thoughts. Substitute for them new vital, dynamic faith thoughts. You can depend upon it—an inflow of new thought will remake you and your life.” NORMAN V. PEALE
▪ Cr. Ph.4:8
What Controls Your Thoughts Controls You
The brain controls what you think and feel, how you learn and remember, and the way you move and talk. But it also controls things you’re less aware of like the beating of your heart and the digestion of your food. Think of the brain as the control computer that controls all of the body’s function.