Blaming creates victims and villains, but is powerless to change the situation. Trusting God creates space for him to show that he is
If you want to blame less, you have to confess. We confess because it changes our opinion of ourselves, others and God.
It's the OPPOSITE of blaming others, the opposite of warning labels and law suits. The opposite of carefully scripted images. Trust God to judge.
Give people time to change. You work on YOU.
Blaming others is sort of like trying to make someone else take your ticket at the parking garage.