Emotionally Healthy Relationships
Incarnational Listening
Pastoral Intern Justin Lam
1. God comes down to humanity (John 1:1-5)
2. The Purpose of Incarnation: Reconciliation (John 17:20-23)
3. Participate in the Incarnation (John 20:19-20, 24-29)
Incarnational Listening
DTM | August 7th, 2022
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