Goodness - Fruit of the Spirit Mini Episode 6
February 10, 2024 • Scott Kedersha, Gabrielle McCullough, Derek Davidson • Psalm 31:19, Acts 5:1–11, Galatians 5:22–23, Romans 3:10–12, Psalm 14:3
Today in part 6 of our 9-part series on the Fruit of the Spirit and your marriage, we discuss ‘goodness’. What if our marriages were marked by integrity and goodness? We know God is good, and so how can we look more like Jesus in our marriage? Galatians 5:22-23 Romans 3:10-12 Psalm 14:3 Psalm 31:19 Acts 5:1-11 Questions to Discuss: 1. When did you most get in trouble for school (for cheating, or for other reasons)? 2. What are some ways you can grow in your integrity in your marriage? Discuss with each other. 3. Are there small areas in your life and marriage where you allow space for compromise? Ask your spouse if they see any areas of compromise in your life and marriage?
Kindness - Fruit of the Spirit Mini Episode 5
February 9, 2024 • Scott Kedersha, Gabrielle McCullough, Derek Davidson • Ephesians 4:32, Galatians 5:22–23, Romans 2:4, Psalm 145:17, 1 Corinthians 13:4
Today in part 5 of our 9-part series on the Fruit of the Spirit and your marriage, we discuss the importance of kindness. What if our marriages were marked by kindness? How different would we look than the rest of the world if husbands and wives were kind to one another? Galatians 5:22-23 Romans 2:4 Ephesians 4:32 Psalm 145:17 1 Corinthians 13:4 Questions to Discuss: 1. What were some TV shows you watched as a kid? 2. Who’s the kindest person you know? What does this person do that makes them kind? 3. What’s one tangible way you can show kindness to your spouse today?
Joy - Fruit of the Spirit Mini Episode 2
February 6, 2024 • Scott Kedersha, Gabrielle McCullough, Derek Davidson • John 10:10, Psalm 16:11, Galatians 5:22–23, 1 Thessalonians 5:16–18, Philippians 4:4
In part 2 of our 9-part mini-series on the Fruit of the Spirit we’re talking about JOY! As part of the Fruit of the Spirit, our joy is intended to be connected to who God is, not the circumstances of life. And this is intended to be played out every day in our marriages. Galatians 5:22-23 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 Philippians 4:4 John 10:10 Psalm 16:11 Questions to Discuss: 1. What’s your favorite Pixar movie? 2. What’s your joy tied to? How about your joy in marriage? 3. What can help bring joy in your lives and marriage (in addition to your relationship with Jesus)?
Episode 54 - Technology and Your Marriage (Part 1 in a 2-Part Series)
November 28, 2023 • Scott Kedersha, Gabrielle McCullough, Derek Davidson • Psalm 139:23–24, Galatians 5:1, Proverbs 28:13, Genesis 2:24–25, Romans 13:14
Technology can be both a blessing and a curse. In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss ways to grow in oneness in your marriage when it comes to phones and technology. Scriptures: Genesis 2:24-25 PR 28:13 Romans 13:14 Psalm 139:23-24 Galatians 5:1 Questions to Discuss: 1. Is there anything technology-related that’s off-limits to your spouse? Are there any legitimate reasons why your spouse doesn’t have access to your phone/iPad, social media accounts, texts… ? 2. What’s one intentional step you can take to grow in oneness when it comes to technology? 3. Pray Psalm 139:23-24 together, asking God to reveal any offensive ways within you. Resources: https://amzn.to/47rqpb8, by Andy Crouch https://amzn.to/3gbumu1, by Justin Whitmel Earley (Justin has a great chapter on technology in this book)
Episode 50 - Are You Quick To Own Your Part Or Quick To Blame Your Spouse?
October 31, 2023 • Scott Kedersha, Gabrielle McCullough, Derek Davidson • Matthew 7:3–5, 1 Timothy 1:15, Psalm 139:23–24, Proverbs 28:13
Many of us tend to be quick to blame our spouse and slow to own our part. In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss how we can do a better job of owning our part instead of blaming. Draw the circle around yourself and work on the person inside the circle. Scriptures: Matthew 7:3-5 1 Timothy 1:15 Psalm 139:23-24 Proverbs 28:13 Shownotes: https://amzn.to/46hdkzl, by Harrison Scott Key https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3z9essmiycm by Harrison Scott Key https://amzn.to/471akh7, by Dave Harvey Save the Date: The More Than Roommates Marriage Conference, Feb 2-3, 2024, Harris Creek Baptist Church (More details coming soon) Questions to Discuss: 1. How do you do in owning your part? Do you tend to own your part or point the finger and blame your spouse? 2. What would owning your part allow to happen in your marriage? 3. Do you own your part too slowly? Too quickly? Or just right? Ask your community if you need some input.
Episode 42 - When’s the Right Time To Grow Your Family?
September 12, 2023 • Scott Kedersha, Gabrielle McCullough, Derek Davidson • Genesis 1:27–28, Psalm 127:3–5, James 1:17, Matthew 19:12, Matthew 28:19–20
We’re answering our most frequently asked questions! When do you start trying to grow your family? How many kids should you have? What if you want kids but can’t get pregnant? How should couples view children? Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott answer these questions and more in this week’s new episode of More Than Roommates. Scriptures: Genesis 1:27-28 Psalm 127:3-5 James 1:17 Matthew 19:12 Matthew 28:19-20 Show Notes: Blog Post: https://www.scottkedersha.com/blog-pages/how-to-change-the-world-raise-a-godly-young-man Becoming Something with Jonathan Pokluda (Podcast) – https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-225-should-i-want-to-have-kids-and-how-many/id1454045768?i=1000622869241 Resources for those walking through infertility: Website - Watermark Community Church in Dallas has compiled some helpful resources through their https://www.watermark.org/ministries/shiloh. Book - https://amzn.to/3sdf6tj Other couples – the best resource is to find another couple who has walked this road. Questions to discuss: How do you view children? As a burden or a blessing? (Answer with honesty) Are you and your spouse aligned in how you view children? How did you know when to start trying to grow your family?
Episode 41 - Why Busyness Might Destroy Your Marriage (feat. Gary Thomas)
September 5, 2023 • Scott Kedersha, Derek Davidson, Gary Thomas • Psalm 90:12, Ephesians 6:12
Busyness is one of the biggest challenges to marriages and we don’t even realize it. It’s the sucker punch and silent killer of many relationships that affects every part of our lives. In this episode of More Than Roommates, pastor and author Gary Thomas joins Scott & Derek as we discuss busyness and marriage. Gary is the author of more than 20 books and serves on the teaching team at https://www.chcc.org/ in Highlands Ranch, CO. Scriptures: Ephesians 6:12 Psalm 90:12 Shownotes: https://amzn.to/3sdhgsn https://amzn.to/3z2kdis Gary’s Website – https://garythomas.com/ Blog post - https://www.scottkedersha.com/blog-pages/weekly-meeting Questions to discuss: Do you know what’s going on in each other’s lives? When’s the last time you checked to see how your spouse is really doing? How can busyness destroy your marriage? How do you know if you’re too busy in your marriage? What relational skill can you work on this year?
Stuck in a Dark Place?
August 6, 2023 • Grant Troutt • Psalm 143
When we find ourselves in desperation, darkness, and the light around us seems to be fading; what do we do? Where do we turn? David, in Psalm 143 understands what it's like to have the spirit within him "appalled" and overcome with fear and pain. In his desperation, he shows us the power of bringing our trials before an Almighty God, remembering His character of old, and obeying His commands despite a lack of peace. If you feel stuck in a dark place, Psalm 143 is for you. 1) Bring Our Troubles To God 2) Remember All That God has Done 3) Do what God Asks of You
Blessed To Be A Blessing
July 16, 2023 • Tedashii • Psalm 67, Genesis 12:1, Numbers 6:24–27
As we continue our series, "Soundtracks", Tedashii teaches through Psalm 67. He teaches us the desire of this psalm is to let the whole world know and praise God, and the way we do that is to be a blessing to others. 1) Blessings do not come to you. They flow through you. 2) God blesses us because He loves us. 3) God blesses us so we can bless others.
The God Who Fights For You
July 9, 2023 • Jonathan Pokluda • Psalm 46, Philippians 4:6–7, 2 Chronicles 32:7–8
Who do you turn to in times of trouble? As we continue our series, "Soundtracks", JP teaches through Psalm 46. He reminds us through this Psalm that God is our protection, peace, and ever present help in time of trouble. 1) The Protection of God is ever present 2) The Power of God Prevails 3) God's Protection and power gives peace to his people
How to Respond to Spiritual Drought
July 2, 2023 • Dale Wallace • Psalm 42
Too often we don’t have a response to spiritual drought. As we continue our series, "Soundtracks", Dale teaches through Psalm 42, This Psalm helps us understand how we can respond to spiritual drought and how we can maturely relate to God in our drought. 1) Longing for God is normal 2) Lament to God with honor and honesty 3) Lift yourself up with hope
Are You Listening?
June 25, 2023 • Nate Hilgenkamp • Psalm 19
Sometimes we struggle to hear God speaking to us. As we continue our series, "Soundtracks", Nate teaches through Psalm 19 where David tells us where to hear from God and how we can speak in a way that honors Him. 1) God’s World Declares God’s Glory 2) God’s Word Declares God’s Glory 3) God’s People Declare His Glory
The Deeply Rooted Christian
June 18, 2023 • Nate Hilgenkamp • Psalm 1
It’s rare to have a study soul because we are prone to be easily impacted by the things of this world. As we kick off our series, "Soundtracks", Nate teaches us through Psalm 1 about where we can be rooted so we can stand tall in any season! 1) The wicked life is slippery 2) The righteous life is steady 3) The judgment of life is sure
Episode 25 - Hard Conversations in Marriage and How to Do Them Well
June 6, 2023 • Scott Kedersha, Gabrielle McCullough, Derek Davidson • Proverbs 27:6, Psalm 139:23–24, Matthew 7:3–5, Proverbs 19:11
In this episode of More Than Roommates, Derek, Gabrielle, and Scott discuss how and why to have hard conversations with your spouse. Most couples struggle with hard conversations because of things like pride and defensiveness. But, when we do this well, it can strengthen our marriage in every way! Shownotes: https://www.scottkedersha.com/blog-pages/one-conversation-with-my-son-that-left-me-completely-speechless Questions to Discuss: 1. Why is it difficult to have hard conversations in our marriage? 2. What’s the best time for us to have hard conversations? 3. How can we make our marriage a safer place for hard conversations?
What Does It Mean To Fear God?
May 21, 2023 • Jonathan Pokluda • Exodus 15:11, Acts 5:11, Proverbs 1:7, Proverbs 9:10, Psalm 33:8
What does it mean to fear God? As we start our next series, "AWE", JP, reminds us of who God is, what it means to fear Him, and how this changes how we live our own lives. 1) God kills 2) God died 3) God shows us how to live